Daily chat thread Saturday 17th May

bubbles0169

ah im sorry bunny
im not that far but too far iyswim
we will have to meet some time x

Ellidee

Bunny :grouphug: :kisses3: :grouphug: XX El-4-L

Bunnyinthelights

Nah,
ballox to em.
I do wish I lived closer to you guys.

*WARNING-WALLOWING!*

This year has truly been the worst for me, ever.
Between jobs, marriages and other things, I cannot truly believe the absolute crap I have had to wade thru and frankly, my 'friendships' seemed to be a lot like my marriage, they seem great from the outside but without me putting the effort in, they fall to pieces. Is it because I don't let people really see how I am feeling and put a brave face on so they have no idea I am crying inside?

I even had a guy at work say to me, I didn't seem like a person who's 'World has fallen apart' (maybe because it hasnt but I certainly am sad...) I wish I could just go back to Canada.

Sorry, wallow over.

boredofbeingathome

bubbles0169 wrote: »

hey BOB
how r ya me lovely

For some reason i want to say Hello Geoffrey bubbles bonbon, but you are probably to young to get the reference to the liver birds:D
Hello bubbles:j

Burlesque_Babe

you wallow all you like hun - I had a crap year last year with everything I went through, it does get better, honest! Just have a good old wallow, we're here for you.

boredofbeingathome

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Nah,
ballox to em.
I do wish I lived closer to you guys.

*WARNING-WALLOWING!*

This year has truly been the worst for me, ever.
Between jobs, marriages and other things, I cannot truly believe the absolute crap I have had to wade thru and frankly, my 'friendships' seemed to be a lot like my marriage, they seem great from the outside but without me putting the effort in, they fall to pieces. Is it because I don't let people really see how I am feeling and put a brave face on so they have no idea I am crying inside?

I even had a guy at work say to me, I didn't seem like a person who's 'World has fallen apart' (maybe because it hasnt but I certainly am sad...) I wish I could just go back to Canada.

Sorry, wallow over.

There's better folk on here Bunny, it is amazing how because we seem tough on the outside folk are quite relieved and think, Oh that's ok then! i don't have to invest in anything emotionally.
You will be ok, everything has its time, and all that is the past. You are now moving forward, it isn't easy but it is different, and you just need a bit of time to adjust.

bubbles0169

yeah i am sorry BOB
hello anywayX

Ellidee

Bob Noooooo that wasn't the Liver Birds it was ......erm that series with Richard Beckinsale .......erm ........called I think 'The Lovers'.

skint_spice

awww Bunny :grouphug: , of course you are going to feel miserable for a bit and need a wallow but that's normal! You're putting a brave face on it at work and for the kids because you want to appear strong and give the kids some normality but I think that's natural and hopefully you'll feel better quicker than if you just stayed home and cried all day. But although you think this year is carp now hopefully by the end of it things will seem much brighter. You obviously married thinking it was for life and if you didn't feel sad now you'd be a bit odd...

Snaggles

Bunny sweetie, I'm not very good at friendships -I never seem to know how to act or what to do - but just want you to know that I am always here for you and I think you are a very lovely and special person who is worth making an effort for.

xxx