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Notice to newcomers re trolls.

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  • fermi
    fermi Posts: 40,542 Forumite
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    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    Are all trolls illiterate as well as sad & lonely with nothing better to do ?

    If they had a mental age or IQ that you needed the fingers of more than one hand to count to, then they wouldn't be trolling. ;)
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  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    An amoeba has a larger brain cell than the troll. I notice that he (am assuming that it is an he or should it be referred to as an IT?) makes lots of presumptions about people.

    Poor little troll be thankful that your mummy loves you, now kindly go and play on the motorway like a good little troll...go on...shoo!
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    Well guys i have to say i feel inordiantely sad.

    No ok, a sticky maybe isn't the way to go, but we need a warning of some sort.

    How many new posters will be scared off by behaviour of these people?

    How long will it take for a comment such as "i've got a noose if you want to borrow it" the one that personally reduced me to tears, to find a person so vulnerable that it puts that thought into their head.

    Please MSE people, put something somewhere, be it a warning, an explaination, an anything. just help people to realise that this is not what we are like here and we will support and help anyone who asks.
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  • Bismarck
    Bismarck Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    iamlegend wrote: »
    im back troll here more money than sense of you scum bags whats it like to live on the breadline.. im loaded have a nice day scum council house scum


    I pity you
    For what I've done...I start again...And whatever pain may come ...Today this ends... I'm forgiving what I've done -AF since June 2007
  • boredofbeingathome
    boredofbeingathome Posts: 15,657 Forumite
    Hey guys, it posted on this thread
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=915207
    perhaps everyone can reassure the OP.
    Thanks
    bob x
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    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • Emmy_L
    Emmy_L Posts: 165 Forumite
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    meh,what a waste of a name...and I happen to like the film I am legend :(
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  • Deep_In_Debt
    Deep_In_Debt Posts: 8,579 Forumite
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    I agree with pania. I'm relatively new on here and it took me a while to pluck up the courage to post as I didn't want to get abuse. I was depressed and low enough at the time and I felt suicidal.

    I'm glad I did take the plunge as I feel much more positive now but the trolls certainly put me off. Even as a "lurker" for a while, I read many of the troll posts and to be honest it upset me that stopped reading the forum for a while. Sometimes it is hard to ignore the comments when you are feeling vulnerable and there are people out there, like me, who take things personally.

    The people on here are wonderful and I just hope that the newbies and lurkers take the plunge like I did, I don't regret it now.
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  • Emmy_L
    Emmy_L Posts: 165 Forumite
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    [quote=Deep In Debt;10926327]I agree with pania. I'm relatively new on here and it took me a while to pluck up the courage to post as I didn't want to get abuse. I was depressed and low enough at the time and I felt suicidal.

    I'm glad I did take the plunge as I feel much more positive now but the trolls certainly put me off. Even as a "lurker" for a while, I read many of the troll posts and to be honest it upset me that stopped reading the forum for a while. Sometimes it is hard to ignore the comments when you are feeling vulnerable and there are people out there, like me, who take things personally.

    The people on here are wonderful and I just hope that the newbies and lurkers take the plunge like I did, I don't regret it now.[/quote]

    Know what you mean about not wanting to say anything,I lurked for a bit before I wrote anything,but the noobs who leave are the ones who get a troll replying to them first instead of a genuine member :(
    It's true that you cant ignore the comments when you are feeling bad enough about yourself anyway, but if you can manage to look past them to the real advice (and maybe read the sticky stuff first ;)) everything works alright in the end :D
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  • Emmy_L
    Emmy_L Posts: 165 Forumite
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    where did the star from under my name come from ??!!??
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  • fermi
    fermi Posts: 40,542 Forumite
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    Emmy_L wrote: »
    where did the star from under my name come from ??!!??

    Read this. ;)

    Link: Stars
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