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Jak's 'I will not spend any money on rubbish and I will pay off my debts' diary

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  • jak
    jak Posts: 2,027 Forumite
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    It is just really frustrating. In the end he found it..but it only appeared after I said I didn't believe that he'd lost it. He said he's really trying. I just don't see it. I'm trying not to discourage him...but I really don't see it.

    I don't know. I suppose at least he's given me his cash card etc. I just wish he would think of our family first. I always do. Anyway, we went and bought KFC for dinner after my version of masterchef went wrong... So now we're down to £20 instead of £30 for the holiday savings but never mind...better than it being 'lost.'!
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  • jak
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    Put the rest of the thrift club money in today until the end of the month so that's up to £740 now thank god. I cannot wait till we go on this holiday. It will be the most we've ever saved for anything! We need to save £4k!!!! Blimey.
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  • lucielle
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    Jak you are doing so well. Just take a deep breath when oh is annoying you, stress is not good especially at this time. Take care
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  • jak
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    Thanks L. I've sent him off to bed now cause he's on an early shift at work so hopefully that'll keep him out of the way for a bit at least! It doesn't help that i'm really starting to feel like this pregnancy is never going to end. Every day I wake up and hope it'll be today...and everyday it isn't! Baby seems ok tho so that's the main thing! And i've just checked net banking and we are both in credit at the bank- not by a huge amount...but it still counts! DH has got a £100 o/d on his account and I don't have one now. We are trying to stay out of his tho- just a buffer in case of (dire) emergency!
    J
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    I got my little lamb nappy set from my sister...they are the cutest things I ever saw! Awww! I'm putting them through the washing machine now to aid absorbtion so I should be able to see how quickly they dry. I'll have to post the results in case of real nappy interesst on here.
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  • bank_of_slate
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    Hi Jak, tweak the old nipps and have a curry, that'll get things moving!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • jak
    jak Posts: 2,027 Forumite
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    Right you are L!
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  • beanielou
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  • jak
    jak Posts: 2,027 Forumite
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    Funny...thaat's what dh keeps wanting to do....
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  • bank_of_slate
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    lots of nipple tweaking DOES work!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • HI Jak just read your posts. What a mare your having but keep going and good luck with the little one. I have jsut ahad a thought to cheer you up. When the little one comes or i think you might be able to get it now. Join all those baby clubs and get the free stuff. Boots give yo ua free camera, asda and tesco a free baby hamper!! Not sure about other places but i bet you could do with a few fab things for the baby.
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