Can I be thrown out.

mumoftwins

Snooze wrote: »

Are you for real? :rolleyes:

You are another of the tell-me-what-I-want-to-hear brigade.

Personally, if you'd replied to my response like that I would've told you to shove your problem up your !!!!, you ungrateful !!!!. When people take the time to reply it's courteous to thank them, not throw it back in their faces. :rolleyes:

And for what it's worth, you need to wake up and smell the coffee :



No, of course she wasn't! She just felt like phoning you in the middle of the night for the fun of it!! :rolleyes: How much bigger a hint do you need, !!!!!!? :rolleyes:

There's an old saying - "never bite the hand that feeds you" and this is a perfect case of when it should applied. Your sister was under no obligation or otherwise to let you doss in her flat and was kind enough to let you do so because you had nowhere else to go. Regardless of what "rights" you think you have to stay there, the simple fact remains that it was only a temporary measure until your sister got fed up and changed her mind, and that's exactly what she's done because you've "bitten the hand that feeds you" and now she wants you out. You should take some lessons in learning to keep your mouth shut when you're getting a very good deal.

As for changing her locks so she can't get in - well, if you'd done that to my flat you wouldn't have 7 days to get out, you'd have 7 seconds plus a smack in the chops plus the bill for putting them back as they were. Who, exactly, do you think you are? :rolleyes:

Rob

There really is no need to be so aggressive!

Argyll_2

Snooze wrote: »

Are you for real? :rolleyes:

You are another of the tell-me-what-I-want-to-hear brigade.

Personally, if you'd replied to my response like that I would've told you to shove your problem up your !!!!, you ungrateful !!!!. When people take the time to reply it's courteous to thank them, not throw it back in their faces. :rolleyes:

And for what it's worth, you need to wake up and smell the coffee :

No, of course she wasn't! She just felt like phoning you in the middle of the night for the fun of it!! :rolleyes: How much bigger a hint do you need, !!!!!!? :rolleyes:

There's an old saying - "never bite the hand that feeds you" and this is a perfect case of when it should applied. Your sister was under no obligation or otherwise to let you doss in her flat and was kind enough to let you do so because you had nowhere else to go. Regardless of what "rights" you think you have to stay there, the simple fact remains that it was only a temporary measure until your sister got fed up and changed her mind, and that's exactly what she's done because you've "bitten the hand that feeds you" and now she wants you out. You should take some lessons in learning to keep your mouth shut when you're getting a very good deal.

As for changing her locks so she can't get in - well, if you'd done that to my flat you wouldn't have 7 days to get out, you'd have 7 seconds plus a smack in the chops plus the bill for putting them back as they were. Who, exactly, do you think you are? :rolleyes:

Rob

No I want to hear facts not your own personal opinions that bears no relevance.

Two previous posters expressed their own personal opinion without contributing any facts.

Regardless of whether she wants me out or not giving someone 7 days notice is unacceptable.

Your sister was under no obligation or otherwise to let you doss in her flat and was kind enough to let you do so because you had nowhere else to go.

I've already said this in a previous post

My sister actually offered me the flat as she was paying two lots of bills. I accepted as I was waiting to sell my property in England before I could buy here. I was intending to rent somewhere else before my sister suggested I stay here

It was her idea and I could easily have went elsewhere but it was her that suggested I move in here.

Please read the posts before adding any comment you f**king idiot!

Oldernotwiser

Argyll wrote: »

No! read it again particularly the part where I told you she said "I was welcome to live there as long as I wanted".

So what do you suggest? I put the original lock on and let her throw my stuff out on the street because there's no way I'll find a place before Wednesday.

Thanks for your input though.........no seriously!

That's the sort of polite thing that people say at the start of a visit. Your sister's been trying to ask you to leave for some time, phoning you up in the middle of the night and asking you to go. You either have very selective hearing or you're pretty dense. Just accept it, you've outstayed your welcome! Move on.

Argyll_2

Exactly mumoftwins. There are many ways to express yourself without being rude.

I know I've called him an idiot but it annoys me when people throw in their tuppence worth without reading the post. He's probably read the first post and commented with his opinion that bears no relevance.

I think I've pointed out the facts to him though (again)

Argyll_2

Oldernotwiser wrote: »

That's the sort of polite thing that people say at the start of a visit. Your sister's been trying to ask you to leave for some time, phoning you up in the middle of the night and asking you to go. You either have very selective hearing or you're pretty dense. Just accept it, you've outstayed your welcome! Move on.

Where in my post have I said she has called me in the middle of the night asking me to go?

No! she only told me last month that I was "welcome to stay as long as I wanted". I agree though that I have outstayed my welcome I just wish she had given me more time as it wouldn't have been a problem.

She hasn't been phoning me just solely about my house hunting. She usually calls me when drunk and talks a lot of sh**e. The subject of house hunting has happened to crop up.

bikerqueen

and the helpful links i found you?

withabix

You've got money saved up and presumably an income as well. Go and find your own place to rent.

kittiej

She asked you to stay a month ago?

About the same time she wanted 5K of your money?

You said "no-can-do sorry" so she said "OK then you've got to go now"?

Yes she is spoilt.

Does she not realise that if you went to the HA to ask what your rights are that she will probably lose the flat anyway because I suppose she has in effect abandoned the property?

I'm undecided on this one as I don't have enough knowledge about Scots law, but in England/Wales I thought that if you had a relative staying with you for a year or more then they have equal tenancy rights?

Have you tried the link provided by Bikerqueen yet?

Hope you get it sorted soon.

papito

withabix wrote: »

You've got money saved up and presumably an income as well. Go and find your own place to rent.

I think this is the best advise given...move on as quick as you can, why do you want to stay there?
A weeks notice may be too short but personnaly I wouldn't want to stay more, you can wait she cools down and let her know you want to leave but in x weeks.

ailuro2

http://www.rightmove.co.uk/viewdetails-19664291.rsp?pa_n=3&tr_t=buy

fixed price £65 , band A council tax , early entry date available.

probably cheaper than renting if you have a deposit and can get a mortgage.

Go for it - fate has decided you need to move home, so do it wisely.;)