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DFW Daily Chat - Sunday 20th April

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  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Morning all. Started the slow process of washing my AS kit... :ill: Then once that's done I've got to start on our own washing..the massive MOUNTAIN of it. Luckily my mate is having the girls today so I might suprise Ste and takes us out for a pub lunch. We had a row yesterday so it'd be nice to have some 'us' time. Tonight we've got the band guys coming over to record our 2nd song. Were supposed to do it last week but our singer didn't turn up as he had a massive fight with his brother when he was due to leave so instead we watched Jackass 2. lol

    Hope everyone's well. :)
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Thanks Snags,
    Kids in the bath then we'll set of to sunny Telford (ha ha)
    Did I tell you my MIL said she can't really babysit the kids anymore? It's 'too much' for her. great. So it looks like I may be having to get another job anyway as we'll be stuffed for childcare...
    I know we're a bit far out of the way but if I can help then I will. :) I'm here during the day apart from monday and thursday afternoons.
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    is anyone collecting those crisps vouchers?
    as i bought some last week, if you want em pm me and ill send them.
    do keep reminding me though!!
    weather not tooo bad hee now,its dry at least.
    your mil doesn't realise how lucky she is being needed and able to look after knickers to her, her loss.

    hope you feel better today bunny
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Oh dear Bunny, what a pain...they can't be THAT old surely?? And your kids are so well behaved and seem to be able to entertain themselves quite well.

    What hours/days is it that you have the problem with? Is it worth making a note of all the hours you CAN work, and then speaking to MFI to explain the situation and see if they can accomodate you? I know it's not nice to mess them about, but it's better to tell them upfront that you have a problem and give them some possible solutions.

    If they can't help, then you haven't lost anything by asking, and they might just love you so much that they will give you suitable hours.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    what a good idea snaggles, i wish i could think of something intellegent to say sometimes lol.
    does the little one go to nursery?
    after school club? are they cheaper than child minders?
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Hello!
    me & smashed had a lovely afternoon in Leeds yesterday!
    We 'mentally' spent about £10,000 each, looked at lots of lovely stuff including the 'gimp Ghandi' sandals in Harvey Nics.
    We had a lovely lunch at Nando's and had loads of fun!

    Today me and hubby are taking the kids to the new huge playground at Shibden Park, Halifax for a run around and a play! (it's free!)
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • I'm collecting those vouchers Jacs! PM me the codes!!!!!

    That's what I'm thinking of doing Snags...nightmare. FIL is 75 (there abouts) and MIL is 67. They can have SIL's son fine every week but my DS has always been the odd one out for some reason. DD is a favourite because she was the first and my nephew is a fav because he belongs to SIL-poor Joe gets the raw end of the deal and TBH, I think he's the easiest out of all 3! Ah well...

    I'm hoping to have a better day too... x
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Oh Sar, that's so kind of you to offer-I may have to take you up on it at some point...
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Oh Sar, that's so kind of you to offer-I may have to take you up on it at some point...
    No problem hunny. :) Just give me a shout if you ever need me :)
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    I'm collecting those vouchers Jacs! PM me the codes!!!!!

    That's what I'm thinking of doing Snags...nightmare. FIL is 75 (there abouts) and MIL is 67. They can have SIL's son fine every week but my DS has always been the odd one out for some reason. DD is a favourite because she was the first and my nephew is a fav because he belongs to SIL-poor Joe gets the raw end of the deal and TBH, I think he's the easiest out of all 3! Ah well...

    I'm hoping to have a better day too... x

    My inlaws did that to me when my boys were little, I had to pay a friends Mum to look after my oldest and they would wave out of the window as I passed to take him to her house as she lived on the same estate. They did lose out bigtime as the boys had no interest in them at all once they got older and I feel as though it was the inlaws that missed out in the end and not my kids. It does make you mad as hell though.
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
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