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  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    I'm a very peculiar situation-
    I really really LIKE my OH, he is my best friend...but that's about it. As my friends put it, friends who have kids together...Not sure what the answer is for it...

    I'm rubbish at these music quizzes! I never know who sings songs, I just sing along to them...

    I know how you feel bunny, there was a time in our relationship where I felt like I was just living with some bloke, no connection at all, we are working on it though, well I am.xx
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    I'm a very peculiar situation-
    I really really LIKE my OH, he is my best friend...but that's about it. As my friends put it, friends who have kids together...Not sure what the answer is for it...

    I'm rubbish at these music quizzes! I never know who sings songs, I just sing along to them...
    i know what you mean about the best friend bit

    i'm carp at quizzes full stop:rotfl:
  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    if anyone ever wants a chat i'm on facebook feel free to ask for my true identity or i have got aol messenger and msn one again feel free to ask for addy's.

    no weirdos though hee hee
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    I don't know.

    I don't want to live without love/passion but I would hate to lose our friendship.

    ???
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    jacs76 wrote: »
    if anyone ever wants a chat i'm on facebook feel free to ask for my true identity or i have got aol messenger and msn one again feel free to ask for addy's.

    no weirdos though hee hee

    Oh well - that's me out then... ;)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • cat4772
    cat4772 Posts: 2,467 Forumite
    Bunny:kisses3:

    (i'm no longer sending dodgy 3some hugs cos kisses are better)!

    Agree with Elantan - what do you happen. I also wonder whether he knows?

    I go through cycles where I can't keep my hands off Wayne and at other times I'd rather not touch him with a barge pole. Of course if I'd kept him at a distance with a barge pole on holiday, I'd not be praying for Aunt Flo's visit to appear on time (and worrying that it's not early)...:rolleyes:

    Cat.x
    DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
    :onever attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
    :othe thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*

    March GC £113.53 / £325
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    I don't know.

    I don't want to live without love/passion but I would hate to lose our friendship.

    ???

    How does he feel about things in relation to that?
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    I don't know.

    I don't want to live without love/passion but I would hate to lose our friendship.

    ???



    would you like to have love /passion with your oh again?
    ...if you think you would feel more comfortable take this to pm or chnge the subject i dont want to upset you in anyway ... i totally understand this is a public forum ...
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    I think he's perfectly happy to plod along-we don't really argue, we laugh a lot, we enjoy each other's company...

    We don't hug, we don't kiss, we don't **** ****, we don't cuddle.


    Dunno-maybe i should just get a lap dog and some bits from IA?
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • cat4772
    cat4772 Posts: 2,467 Forumite
    Elantan

    Are you a counsellor? reminds me of when I saw the bereavement midwife and a work counsellor a couple of years ago; God I'm nosey when hungover!

    Cat.x
    DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
    :onever attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
    :othe thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*

    March GC £113.53 / £325
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