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I have just been reading the fart thread in DT and it has me in stitches
Why do they make some people laugh:DAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T
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Tibbie's_mum wrote: »Thank you for the welcome Tulip
CCStar, many thanks for your reply. Sleep isn't a problem for me, it has always been my escape from reality. One good thing now, is when I wake up I no longer wish, I hadn't. However difficult it is dealing with three boys, it has given my life purpose.
So far, I have managed to get the bottles sterilised ready to make feeds and my 3 yr old is eating a proper meal for lunch, not just chocolate spread sandwiches, it's lovely to see him stuffing his face. And I've decided that I will walk the boys up to school to collect my eldest. If I could just clear all the clutter that's spread across the kitchen floor, it would look as if I'd done something productive when OH gets in.
Well done
Does your OH give you a hard time about the clutter?
I worry you say sleep is an escape from reality - what reality are you trying to avoid?An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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Morning Ccstar.
Welcome Tibbie's Mum.
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Well done
Does your OH give you a hard time about the clutter?
I worry you say sleep is an escape from reality - what reality are you trying to avoid?
Yes he does, but I hate it as well. I can be the most organised person, but another way of sabotaging myself is to live in this chaos. I spend my time continually beating myself up for be so useless, but I make everything deliberately difficult for myself. It's a Catch22 situation that I need to stop myself doing and start going a bit easier on myself.
As for escaping reality, I think that all revolves round wanting to control life too much. We were going to move, in order to be mortgage free, but I can't cope with change and the unknown, so that idea's been scraped for the moment.
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Good afternoon everyone.
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Good afternoon Carmen. 2019 Wins
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Tibbie's_mum wrote: »Yes he does, but I hate it as well. I can be the most organised person, but another way of sabotaging myself is to live in this chaos. I spend my time continually beating myself up for be so useless, but I make everything deliberately difficult for myself. It's a Catch22 situation that I need to stop myself doing and start going a bit easier on myself.
As for escaping reality, I think that all revolves round wanting to control life too much. We were going to move, in order to be mortgage free, but I can't cope with change and the unknown, so that idea's been scraped for the moment.
This is all very deep for a Tuesday afternoon!
You are expecting too much of yourselves and a change of residence is a very stressful experience, even thinking about moving from a place you like.
We are just moved to start a new life and it does bring it's own set of new challenges.
I'll back off if it is being too heavy for you
(((big hugs)))An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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:hello: everyone.Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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Heya SF. How are you today?
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I'm good thanks LM, you? xBe who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
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