Help & advice needed

jonoone

She was right then and always has been !! We have both been through a lot of sh...t in our lives together, eldest daughter had cancer at 26( is in remission now and despite being told that she could never have kids had baby boy last year. Middle son mentally handicapped epileptic, youngest daughter has autonomic condition so God we have been through a lot with our kids. Got to be strong for them.
Sorry now Im canvassing for sympathy .Everyone has their crosses to bear in life. DONT WE ALL .Thank you all for letting me ramble!! just knowing you are all there really helps.

peachyprice

Ah, see you have a secret weapon, tell her she was right all along, as Angel & Dalip said, she will appreciate hearing that!

jonoone

Hi Nomad
Thanks for comment. Yes I do have accountants,but am concerned if i am going to be able to afford to continue paying their fees and also if they are actually representing my best interests, not sure how much experience they have of enquiries as only had them for two years.
My turnover for biz last year under 15000. should i file my accounts online to save som money??
Are u accountant type person??
regards jono:eek:

jonoone

NOMAD 25

did you mean taxing times board?
Really could do with some advice regarding this situation
cant seem to post on tax/benefits board

dalip

Hey I posted on here yesterday that there is a lot more to everybodys post and you have just proved it by your "confession". I too have a daughter of 26 who has just had her first clear 12mth smear(sorry if that is too much info for some)and worry that the treatment she had will leave her unable to have children. I lost my mum to the same cancer when i was 23(5 wks before my daughter was born/mums first granchild)and later i had that same cancer at 26 so no more children with my second hubby.
There are so many pieces that make the whole puzzle but here we only see(hear) the edge pieces. If you and your wife have made it ths far i can only say you must love each other enough to get over this "last" hurdle. I really hope she stands by you, from what you have said you deserve a break. Goodnight and godbless X

Nomad25

Hi jo - sorry I was away there at the dentist for a while. To answer your first q - good grief, me an accountant not. Have a fairly small business and although I do all the drudge work [saves money], the accountants prepare y/end stuff. They also stand-over anything submitted to HMRC and pledge to help in case of investigation by same. However, they do say everything is submitted based on my records and I have to sign that "info provided is true, acccurate, blah, blah", so I guess that would give them a let-out. Have you asked them if they will do this and more importantly do you trust them [or you may have stuff you'd be better off keeping to yourself]? If I have ever skirted "on the edges", and sort of mentioned it to the accnt, he just tells me he hasn't heard what I just said! As to DIY on-line tax submission, I really can't advise, but somebody may have experience of this.
Your 2nd q: there are two boards - 1] Cutting Tax, 2] Benefits & Tax Credits. Or, there is a 3] Small Biz and Charities board. If you post on one of these you'll either get someone who'll answer or point you in the right board direction. Sometimes you have to split up your questions and post them on different boards, rather than get all your answers in one! All will try and help.