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  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
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    I have asked if he's happy-he said yes.
    From what 'information' I can gather, yes, someone thinner and with bigger boobs and who bears an uncanny resemblance to Lucy Pinder *would* make him happy. lol

    Sorry to have to say this Bunny but that sounds to me like a form of emotional abuse.
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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    I have asked if he's happy-he said yes.
    From what 'information' I can gather, yes, someone thinner and with bigger boobs and who bears an uncanny resemblance to Lucy Pinder *would* make him happy. lol

    You've asked him, and he's given you an answer. It's not however not the "true" answer.

    It's not your boobs - it's what you do with them...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    You've asked him, and he's given you an answer. It's not however not the "true" answer.

    It's not your boobs - it's what you do with them...

    why should she have to do anything with them?
    He should be doing that:rolleyes:
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    jinky67 wrote: »
    That just sounds really shallow:rolleyes:
    If he loved you he should be happy however you look
    Is he perfect?:cool:

    He gave the answer he thought was expected of him.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    jinky67 wrote: »
    why should she have to do anything with them?
    He should be doing that:rolleyes:

    They both should be. But he's a man - he needs motivation. He'll go to hell and back for the right motivation...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    They both should be. But he's a man - he needs motivation. He'll go to hell and back for the right motivation...

    you are *probably* right about the motivation...but where is she to get her's if he is making silly comments like that?
    It is hard when your advances get rejected all the time to bother making the effort
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Nah Zed,
    He is ok in all the right areas...

    He just doesnt find me *um, erm* attractive anymore...apparently, I'm too fat.


    She says eating mini eggs

    Welcome to my world hunny bun :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
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  • Sorry Zed,
    I beg to differ.
    I could go more into it, but not on a public forum-I've learned my lesson the hard way not to bare my soul too much.

    And I've already said too much as it is-in my semi-inebriated state, I havent listened to my own advice. oops
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Wol2
    Wol2 Posts: 3,845 Forumite
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    Bunny sweeteheart...

    I have only just come on line at the end of this. First of all....big hugs!!!

    Secondly......there is only so much you can do/put up with..if you are in a relationship that doesnt fulfill/nourish you in all the ways necessary...only you can decide when that level has been reached..and what bargaining you choose to do to balance the equation. And lots of us do this...there's no wrong or right way forwards.

    Whatever you may feel "a ce moment" ...we are here to support you..not just with hugs..but to demonstrate to you what a special and valued person you are to us here on DFW....and we don;t care that you're not Lucy Pinder..COUNT ON IT!!

    So wishing you all the best..and I'm sure that the regulars on here will not just support but offer far more decent advice and solace than I possibly could!!

    But good luck...you deserve it flower!!

    Muc love
    Wol2
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  • So, in honour of being a loose cannon, I'm off to get more wine...
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
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