My wife wants to leave me

Debt_Free_Chick

randomsam08 wrote: »

if my partner was seeing someone else i'd help her leave, in fact she'd be gone already

[Winston Churchill on] And if I were your partner, I'd take up your offer [Winston Churchill off]

She must be so happy, knowing that you love her that much.

Please, tell us ..... why are you such a great catch?

go out get laid, you'll feel much better about things after that

Yeah .... right .....

Rock_Chick_Bird

just hang in there, God knows it's tough & it feels as though your world has caved in but I've been there too - and I'm still here & happier than ever!

Keep talking - that's the most important thing, because if you keep it bottled up you'll feel as though you're going to burst.

I really believe that everything happens for a reason & whatever is meant to be will be.
I wish for you the peace of mind that I eventually found & please take care of yourself for your son - he needs his Daddy!

full-time-mum

:grouphug:Have only read the first post but feel that I must say that your son needs you both to get through this.

Don't give up. Could you apply for custody - why should the woman automatically get the child - and could you cope if you did. Just remember that your son's needs must come first however you feel about the situation.

I have a friend who is separated from the fathers of her two children. Both go to their fathers every Friday evening and are returned Sunday morning. They both go to parents evenings/school performances together. Its not easy, and not without problems but they have all managed to have good relationships and worked the situation out as best they can for the good of the children.

Don't be afraid to seek professional help. Someone like Relate will help you split up amicably - they don't just help you stay together. Try not to get into slanging matches, it won't help any of you. Talk to your GP too as they should be able to point you in the right direction.

sasp

littlemissmoney wrote: »

Hi markgar,

You will get through this, and your son will not love you any less. If you want to talk things through please call the samaritains.

Samaritans: 08457 90 90 90mail us

I just wanted to send hugs, take each day as it comes, try to focus on your son as he will ultimately need you both to be strong for him.

Thanks Littlemiss excellent advice