DFW Leap Year Daily Chat 29 February

Snaggles

Ellidee wrote: »

Aww Snags what's happened hun ? Things have seemed much better later. Have a cuddly hug ((((())))) XX

Things have been great all week - I have had terrible pmt (;) Zed), but have really kept it under control, and haven't been snappy at all (and considering the painful cramps I have had, THAT is a bloody miracle ). I have cleaned the house, made him nice meals, looked after the kids, I have been into school on my own to see the headmaster about a little 'issue' that Ryan has had this week, so that he didn't have to deal with it.......I've made everything as perfect as possible for him, so that come Friday night we could sit down and relax, and have a nice evening together.

But for some reason I have obviously done something wrong, because he is being grumpy with Ryan and after me commenting that he was being a bit snappy, he now isn't speaking to me at all. Oh, in fact he's fallen asleep....nice!

I'm sick of him being so tired and miserable every weekend. He hasn't even been working hard - he's been a 'driver's mate' this week while he learns the job, which has basically involved sitting in the passenger seat and not doing a great deal. Beginning to think he is just miserable at the thought of spending time with me. I had the chance to go out tonight too, but turned it down to spend time with him because I went to Bunny's last weekend.

Anyway, that's enough depressing stuff - going to pinch the rest of his bottle of wine while he is asleep...lol.

jinky67

Yes you can join me...I'm on the Vodka and Diet Irn Bru:D

sallyx

Snaggles :grouphug: have a dodgy hug you deserve it. Men are such !!!!!! at times. Hope that he wakes up in a better mood! Sometimes think they have worse PMT than us women!

Snaggles

sallyx wrote: »

Sometimes think they have worse PMT than us women!

Thanks hun - and very VERY true!

boredofbeingathome

Snaggles wrote: »

Things have been great all week - I have had terrible pmt (;) Zed), but have really kept it under control, and haven't been snappy at all (and considering the painful cramps I have had, THAT is a bloody miracle ). I have cleaned the house, made him nice meals, looked after the kids, I have been into school on my own to see the headmaster about a little 'issue' that Ryan has had this week, so that he didn't have to deal with it.......I've made everything as perfect as possible for him, so that come Friday night we could sit down and relax, and have a nice evening together.

But for some reason I have obviously done something wrong, because he is being grumpy with Ryan and after me commenting that he was being a bit snappy, he now isn't speaking to me at all. Oh, in fact he's fallen asleep....nice!

I'm sick of him being so tired and miserable every weekend. He hasn't even been working hard - he's been a 'driver's mate' this week while he learns the job, which has basically involved sitting in the passenger seat and not doing a great deal. Beginning to think he is just miserable at the thought of spending time with me. I had the chance to go out tonight too, but turned it down to spend time with him because I went to Bunny's last weekend.

Anyway, that's enough depressing stuff - going to pinch the rest of his bottle of wine while he is asleep...lol.

so sorry to hear that, mine does that a lot,( bit of a last of the summer wine moment there) sulks and sleeps so can sympathise. It feels rude when you have gone to all the trouble of cooking nice meals etc. Is it worth having a quiet word to see if he is stressed about something? if not then join everyone else in a drink:D

Snaggles

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

so sorry to hear that, mine does that a lot,( bit of a last of the summer wine moment there) sulks and sleeps so can sympathise. It feels rude when you have gone to all the trouble of cooking nice meals etc. Is it worth having a quiet word to see if he is stressed about something? if not then join everyone else in a drink:D

He says there's nothing wrong, he's just tired.

Let's see:

He has sat on his bum all day, getting up only to deliver the occasional parcel, and finishing work shortly after 3pm.

I got up at 6.30am, fed and dressed 2 kids, did the school run, went on a course for 2 hours, came home, bathed and fed the baby, cleaned the house whilst entertaining the baby, did the school run, picked him up from work, came home, made dinner, did the washing up, fed the baby, got the kids ready for bed, put the kids to bed, tidied up....

I am not really feeling much sympathy for his tiredness!

So I will join you in that drink thanks - red wine for me, ta!

Ellidee

:mad: MEN! What's that saying ? ' Can't live with 'em, can't live without ' 'em'. I suggest just ignore him & let him sulk. If he's anything like my OH by tomorrow morning it will be as though nothing was wrong. At least you can come on here & vent- most men just bottle it all up.

sallyx

Snaggles wrote: »

Thanks hun - and very VERY true!

Here have a glass of my wine otherwise I won't be getting up for work as I'll still be blotto!
Thats a beautiful photo you have in your avatar

ZTD

Snaggles wrote: »

But for some reason I have obviously done something wrong, because he is being grumpy

Why do you have to have done something wrong because he's grumpy? Explain - use short words, because I don't understand.

Snaggles wrote: »

with Ryan and after me commenting that he was being a bit snappy, he now isn't speaking to me at all. Oh, in fact he's fallen asleep....nice!

I'm sick of him being so tired and miserable every weekend. He hasn't even been working hard - he's been a 'driver's mate' this week while he learns the job, which has basically involved sitting in the passenger seat and not doing a great deal.

Well let's split that out:

Is he tired? If so - why?
Is he miserable? If so - is that just because he's tired? If not - why is he?

Snaggles wrote: »

Beginning to think he is just miserable at the thought of spending time with me.

No, no, no... You know that's not true. Let's deal with *his* problems. Blaming something else, is not going to help do that.

Snaggles wrote: »

Anyway, that's enough depressing stuff - going to pinch the rest of his bottle of wine while he is asleep...lol.

Is he drinking a lot?

And now, for you... :grouphug: :kisses3:

jinky67

I am very slowly getting drunk on my own
I dont usually do that!
But tonight I feel the need