Game Over, or could a mod lock this please xxxx

EverDecreasingCircles

Flamingice, you've done all you can hon. If he decides to go then it wasn't meant to be and the right one for you is still out there, just waiting for you to find him.

It'll hurt for a while, but you'll get through it. Stay stong hon

Jen x

flamingice

Juliepink26 wrote: »

so what does he want from you if hes not happy like this, what is his main problem?

to be honest i don't know if he means not happy with me, or not happy with life like this
but the way he worded it sounds like he means me?
but that could just be me being paranoid and jumping to the wrong conclusion
i did text him back and say "what? with what?" but then i turned my phone off as i didn't want to get a response that knocked me for six at 4am as i desperately needed sleep! and plus we'd both had a few drinks
i mean i have noticed he's been unhappy lately and he's said he's been unhappy lately, he doesn't feel like he has any prospects, he's retaking uni as he failed last time but he's sure he's going to fail again, he's lost his best mate in a car accident recently and he seems generally depressed

but i don't know if that's what he means or if he sees a problem with our relationship either
despite our problems i do love him so very much, he's only been strange and inconsiderate this year, and i think it has a lot to do with our friend being killed

its strange because i stayed over at his on thursday (we're not living together at the mo as i lost my job and can't afford to pay rent) and he was back to normal, we had a nice night together and then he showed me what he'd been doing to his car and said we'd need a satnav if we were going to drive to belgium in august

maybe i'm just reading too much into this and he doesn't really want to leave me, i don't know...

sorry to ramble so much, just have no one else to talk to right now

sparky61

Hi all :hello:
I haven't clicked at all so far today :eek: I've been trying to sort out a Betfair account and get a free £25 bet and £30 cashback, I think it's sorted and the cashback has tracked already, placed 5 bets one of them Chelsea Harbour, that's the view from my window.

Good luck all
:beer:

Juliepink26

I would of thought losing a freind like that would make you look at your life diffrently, it may well be it has affected him more that you think...
I found out this morning my best friend mum has cancer and to be honest it has really hurt me, its hard and i had loads of probs with uni as well and droped out after my first year and that left me with a pretty crap out look on life at the time, maby give him time and see what happens, try and cheer him up the best you can, if you had a nice night together then iam sure there could be more, but at the end of the day you will have to see how things go, if you really love him that much i would give it one last try...xx

rosegarden

15.05 not me

scottishfreebiehunter

not me either

Rose hope you are well
xxx

toniq

not me xxxxxxxxxxxxx

scottishfreebiehunter

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

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not me absolutely rubbish I am now:rotfl::rotfl:

COME ON MSERS LETS KICK !!!

rosegarden

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

not me either

Rose hope you are well
xxx

Yep, I'm good, hope you're feeling better xxxx

flamingice

Juliepink26 wrote: »

I would of thought losing a freind like that would make you look at your like diffrently, it may well be it has affected him more that you think...
I found out this morning my best friend mum has cancer and to be honest it has really hurt me, its hard and i had loads of probs with uni as well and droped out after my first year and that left me with a pretty crap out look on life at the time, maby give him time and see what happens, try and cheer him up the best you can, if you had a nice night together then iam sure there could be more, but at the end of the day you will have to see how things go, if you really love him that much i would give it one last try...xx

thanks for your help julie, i appreciate the advice
he's been through a lot as well since his dad died not long ago either and he was still trying to come to terms with that when his friend was killed
also lost his house and a lot of childhood stuff, things related to his father in a house fire
i'm pretty much the only person who's been consistent but he still asks me why i'm with him sometimes
as much as he does my head in and i complain about him, i do love him very much and i don't want to give up, i just don't want him to either, we used to have a good relationship until this started, and since this all seemed to start when our friend died its a bit too much of a coincidence

we had a problem earlier in feb where i accused him of treating me badly and not showing me any love and he said maybe it was because he didnt love me any more, but then over easter he said he loved me and he wanted us to go away over the summer and drive to belgium in his car when he gets it sorted

so i don't know if he's changed his mind again but it would be a bit weird if suddenly decides he doesn't love me in a week

also i'm really sorry to hear that about your friends mum, i really do hope she's ok