We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Je Regrette....

By and large most MFWs are Positive Peeps:D. However, I wondered if anyone regrets anything that would have brought there MF date closer:-

I Regret
1) Overpaying for insurance for years:eek:
2) Maybe staying in our last property too long:o
3) Spending too much on food for years:p
4) Not selling Friends Provident shares at floatation

and I might still live to regret not getting rid of the NU endowment

What about you:confused:
«13

Comments

  • Even worse buying more FP shares at flotation :confused:
    My DW and I are both MSE's
    I'm Money Saving Expert
    She is Money Spending Expert
  • Di-Dough
    Di-Dough Posts: 306 Forumite
    I regret not overpaying on our first house (six years) when the mortgage was smaller. :o

    Di
    Sealed Pot Challenge # 007
  • Setmefree,

    It's the food for me - we have spent soooooo much more than we needed to over the years :mad:

    Oh, and not starting a spending diary back in 2001 :)

    FG
    MFiT-T4 Number 68
    MFiT 4 Goal - Build up savings (SIPP, ISA etc.) to £250k . Current balance £174748 (1/8/16).
    Crazy goal - £500k by Jan 2026.

  • Taking a fixed rate for the first five years (back in the 90s) that allowed NO overpayments (until I made them realise they'd broken the contract!).

    We live and learn...
    Mortgage Free thanks to ill-health retirement
  • phizzimum
    phizzimum Posts: 1,712 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I regret renting for so many years - when we got married in 1992 lots of people seemed to be in negative equity which scared me. we didn't buy a house until 1999, by which time prices had soared. also DH inherited some money from his grandfather not long after we were married which he blew on a car.

    Still, I think I've learned from our mistakes, and hopefully we will be mortgage free before many of our friends who bought earlier.
    weaving through the chaos...
  • ~daisy~_2
    ~daisy~_2 Posts: 2,566 Forumite
    i regret
    • not realising we could have been over paying for ten years and feeling smug at our super low mortgage payments
    • spending too much on sale items and cheap clothes that have never been worn
    • spending to much in tescos
    • missing the ''window of opportunity'' to move up the property ladder - then feeling the gap was to big to bridge
    trying to make up for it now tho.......
    :j MFi3 wannabee :j
    mortgage owing 04.07 £36,000
    mortgage owing 07.10 £0 !!!!
  • Like most I regret wasting money for years. Whilst not in debt apart from mortgage, we spent what we earned each month on "nothing".

    Regret not stretching ourselves more when we bought 7 years ago. Got a 3 bed semi with a comfortable mortgage, but with 2nd kid now on way really need a 4 bed minimum, which would have been achievable 7 years ago.

    Regret getting caught up in BTL bug and buying overvalued new build apartment.

    Regret not discovering this site 5 years ago. Will be one year anniversary for me in April :beer:
    MFi3 T2 member 177
  • Kaz2904
    Kaz2904 Posts: 5,797 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    I regret not buying earlier than we did.
    If we had bought before I went to uni (4 years earlier) then we could have got the same mortgage as we got while I was at uni.
    In that time we went from being able to buy a large 3 bed house- big garden to just scraping into a 2 bed flat needing loads of work.
    Other than that I just regret the amount of money we wasted over the years. If we'd not wasted so much money then DH could have been a stay at home dad (not that he wanted to!).
    Never mind- once the mortgage has gone I can get out of this job and go into one with no unsocial hours!
    Debt: 16/04/2007:TOTAL DEBT [strike]£92727.75[/strike] £49395.47:eek: :eek: :eek: £43332.28 repaid 100.77% of £43000 target.
    MFiT T2: Debt [STRIKE]£52856.59[/STRIKE] £6316.14 £46540.45 repaid 101.17% of £46000 target.
    2013 Target: completely clear my [STRIKE]£6316.14[/STRIKE] £0 mortgage debt. £6316.14 100% repaid.
  • setmefree2
    setmefree2 Posts: 9,072 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Thought of 2 more:rolleyes:

    1) Saving for our kids when they were small and then leaving the money languishing in a woolwich kids account that paid rubbish interest:eek:

    2) Leaving our ISA with smile too long when they dropped the interest:eek:
  • I regret believing my teacher who said I was rubbish at maths and as a result having fear of numbers and decimal points for so long (including money and bills).

    Other things:
    • Buying my ex out of an endowment when we divorced for £10k - only to see the endowment crash to 10% of its value (less than 2k) within 6 months:o I should have cashed it in at the time.
    • Staying in my last perm job for too long - I should have walked when they asked me to complete the 3rd set of forms for my job grade evaluation (I waited two years, trusted my manager, completed another 6 sets of forms, then gave up when I realised I could barely afford to continue paying the credit card bills for the £18k of debt I generated paying for my MBA)
    :D Thanks to MSE, I am mortgage free!:D
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 601.1K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 259.2K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.