Really low tonight :(

ms_london

Also, there are heaps of things you can entertain yourself with that are free, or cheap to do.

I take it you have already posted your SOA on here? Could you move into shared accommodation? Like a shared flat but with your own room? I had a great time in London when I flatshared (and still doing it now!) - sure, some places are dodgy, but same as anything else - just dont move into somewhere you are not comfortable living!

xx

ellerose

Wow, can't believe how nice everyone is being! I really needed this, thank you. Feel a bit more positive this morning. Going to look at a few more house shares today, hopefully one will be ok.

carrottopsuk

ellerose wrote: »

Wow, can't believe how nice everyone is being! I really needed this, thank you. Feel a bit more positive this morning. Going to look at a few more house shares today, hopefully one will be ok.

Good luck with today!

smashedbooboo

Hi hun, i am in exactly the same situation as you. I have split from my boyfriend as well and in debt. I too am looking for a houseshare. Where are you looking or where do you need to be. Pm me if you like. I will PM you and tell you where i am. You never know we might be able to help each other out here. I am near leeds. And i am a nurse. x dont worry hun, keep your chin up

G-G_4

Hey, basement flats are all the rage you know! some guy out there will think you are uber cool for living in a basement

I think you need to think of the positives (hard I know).. but think about meeting a new guy one day who you will be really happy and secure with.. x

I think you are being very brave, and I know things must seem uncertain and scary right now, but you will get through it.. and you will be a stronger person for it..!

All the best, you can do it!!

xxxx

smashedbooboo

Ok have had a look on tinternet, There is a site called www.flatmateclick.co.uk I have signed up to them to have a look and see what its all about. There are quite a few people wanting house shares in and around the leeds area. And not grotty ones either. And the prices are not to bad either. Maybe worth you having a look chick. Good luck x

Numpty_Monkey

Good luck ellerose and smasshedbooboo, wish i had a few spare rooms.

smashedbooboo

Awe thank you NumptyMonkey. Appreciate that. Looks like there are quite a few people popping up from our area now. Good to see. I am hoping to stay in Otley as i love the town. Lots of pubs and bars. Not to far away to get to leeds and harrogate and Bradford. xxx

Numpty_Monkey

Havn't been to Otley for a good few years , used to work in Harrogate severalteen years ago:eek: :eek: ,if you want i'll pm the number of the housing fed i'm with not sure if they take single people , but i'm paying £56 a week for a 1 bedroom flat apart from weekends i'm out 12 hours a day

ZTD

Just as an aside - what is at Harrogate?