The mental health problem label

cazziebo

What we have to cope with is just people's prejudice - paddy's mum expresses it so well.

In real terms you can't be discriminated against because of a history of depression - it's history. However, they can't legislate against prejudice.

it is a label, but it's a label in other people's head, not yours! You've come through it and out the other end. You're a great mum to two lovely children, and just about to embark on a nursing career. What a fab nurse you'll make with all the experience you've gained already.

I hate having to fill in forms for new jobs/pensions/insurance whatever and the question is always there. I swither about whether to admit to having had depression (and sometimes these black clouds threaten to come back). and I hate the reaction "You were never depressed!". Why not? because I'm a cheerful happy person? Depression is horrible and inflicts so many people.

It's what you think and how you see yourself that's important. You've experienced some awful times, but that makes you the fab person you are today. Good luck in your career!

misty

It's not you who has the problem - it's the so called professionals you have been unfortunate to meet. As far as your GP is concerned - I would change - either within the practise or to another surgery. You need to feel confident and happy with the treatment you seek and receive.

I have had bouts of depression for 20 years - I didn't have a problem with my old GP - I just didn't find him particularly helpful. I moved GP practise when I moved house and the doctors I have now are brilliant. I had two miscarriages and was on quite high dosages of anti - depressants - at other times I have been on no medication at all. They have talked about depression the reasons behind it - types of medication - other types of treatment including complimentary - your rights regarding revealing info in work situations.

Before I had my son, I was worried about having post natal depression and they assured me they would monitor me closely following the birth. They recognise I can now recognise the signs.

If they have refused you medication because of what happened in the past have they explained why - perhaps the drug can cause depression and they don't want to do this - this would be fair enough as long as they explained.

Everytime someone says something to you - I would repeat that this was an episode you are now over and how you are constantly amazed at the ignorance surrounding mental health issues even within the medical profession.

I think as well as your bereavement - you have been incredibly unlucky with people you have had treating you.