do you find it difficult when you invite neighbours to your child's birthday

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THE_LONE_RANGER wrote: »

we are a group of 4 houses on the outskirts of a village , i have lived in the village all my life apart from moving away for 4 yaers , all our neighbors have young children , we have a bouncy castle for birthdays so do they we do not invite them around and they do not invite us around and i think we are all happy with that we work from home and they all go out to work from 8 til 6ish the only time we realy here or see them is around these times and may be at week ends in the summer .
we have never ever wanted to asociate with any of our neighbors why???,i think many fall in to the trap of getting to friendly, or in fact regard them as friends when in fact there just next door neighbors who in general lets face it move on after 5 or so years the house the biggest distance way has had 3 accupants in 6 years the one couple i no no one ever saw them the entire time they lived here .
I for one love it thats why i live here a group of four houses and know one talking to each other just waving as we past through the year we do neot even exchange xmas cards