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Adult care home - personal budget (Berkshire)

Wanna_Bee_Free
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edited 11 July at 4:25PM in Benefits & tax credits

I am likely to be helping my father choose a care home to move into next week. He has 24 hour needs, is at risk of falling and has continence issues. At the moment he has no nursing needs beyond continence issues and help taking his pills. His capability has gone down a lot following a fall in April. He lives in Berkshire. His social worker has confirmed he will be self-funded initially but I have no figure for what the personal care budget before income deductions would be when his money runs out. Will they pay for a care home in a different county or does it need to be the same one? He is currently in receipt of Attendance Allowance and has a private pension in addition to the state pension. To know the max amount they offer as a personal budget before they deduct all his pension money would be fine as I just don't want to choose somewhere unaffordable for him in the medium-term.

I am not working and not in his household. My sister is in receipt of benefits so we can't do a third party top up if we choose somewhere too expensive while he is self-funding and I would prefer he doesn't have to move because we chose a care home whose fees exceeds the personal budget once his savings have gone.

Any other advice for me choosing a home for the first time very welcome. I have found the Age UK info very useful so far today. https://www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/care/arranging-care/care-homes/

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  • NedS
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    edited 11 July at 4:54PM

    If the local authority is paying for the care and the care recipient is expected to contribute from income, the care recipient is entitled to retain the Personal Expenses Allowance which is £31.80/week in England.

    If he is initially paying for his own care, I would suggest you choose a care home he is happy with in the county in which he wishes to remain. Once his capital falls below the threshold (£23,250 in England), you can request an urgent financial review from the local authority under which he lives. If the local authority wish to move him to a cheaper care home (not sure if they do this?), it would almost certainly be within the same county, and you could have input into that decision.

    You should notify Attendance Allowance of any move into a care home, and it's important to tell them he is self-funding. He will keep his AA payments, but is expected to use them (as part of his income) to pay towards his care.

    Costs for self-funded residential care typically fall in the £1000-2000 per week range. Choosing a care home which also accepts Local Authority funding may help reduce the risk of a move later.

    If you have no experience of care homes, go an visit a few. Use a site like carehome.co.uk to locate and shortlist candidates. Read their CQC report if available. Finally, as my wife says, apply the 'sniff test' on first visit - does it smell fresh and clean?

    It maybe worth involving the LA at this stage anyway, even if you know Dad is initially going to be self funding. You can request a care assessment and a financial review, during which the LA should be able to give you a lot of helpful information and maybe answer a lot of your questions about what may happen further down the line.

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  • twopenny
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    I can only give second hand experience but yes, friends mother was moved from her home town to one 10miles away. It was a good one but at 95 a worrying time for the lady and family. The family had to fight for where she would go but they did get the chance to do that. Somerset

    My great aunt with whom I was close went into an excellent one but I was an 8hr drive away and working, I wasn't given any input and after a few years she had to share a room. Strokes had left her blind and she wasn't allowed her ticking clock, last contact with her home, because it disturbed the other lady. By the time I found out it she wouldn't let me do anything. Hertfordshire.

    So yes changes can be made, you should have input as direct family. I think you need to have a direct conversation with whoever's in charge about what happens. Ts & C's can be read to give you an idea but also speak about it .

    Presumably there is a contract to sign before the move so read thoroughly.

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    And however keen they are to get their bed back if you haven’t had time to properly choose somewhere and to look around then push back on the discharge decision.

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  • Wanna_Bee_Free
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    edited 11 July at 5:28PM

    Hi @elsien @twopenny and @NedS thank you all for your helpful thoughts and your wife's sniff test! The actual figures are a real help and the info about how self-funding can be more expensive. He lives in my sister's house and she is currently sectioned and in residential psychiatric care. This party just keeps getting more fun for me. She will need to sell the house as she isn't earning except carer's allowance and universal credit (thank you to me and folk on here I helped her apply she got that one sorted) and my father has been helping her with utilities and the mortgage. I will reread tomorrow when it's less hot, brain a bit melty this afternoon. I have a list of what's important to him but I don't know if any care home will provide lightly boiled cabbage and raw carrot batons and classical music on a daily basis with the occasional chess game. We'll see. :)

  • elsien
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    edited 11 July at 5:37PM

    A little bit of an overview with about the current fee gap nationally. The full report seems to be behind a paywall.

    https://www.carehomeprofessional.com/care-home-market-reaches-27bn/

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  • Wanna_Bee_Free
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    Thank you very much! After him refusing the LPAs are top of the list tomorrow.

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