More advice needed (sorry) and keep getting bullied by more and more people in the Ex-Wife family

doubled1989

I am really struggling here

I am now getting watched on my indoor ring camara, and having certain and private conversations shared around which

1. I do not know why she cares who I talk to or what I do or where I go, because I was begging her to reconsider her wanting to divorce for 5/6 weeks and she did not care about anything apart from the kitchen then
2. surely if there is a conversation between me and somebody else on a phone, there is some rules about somebody not even in the house and in the conversation sharing it around about to other people not involved in the conversation?
3. her sister was listening to a video call between me, my child and the ex… and then proceeded to swear at me/shout and get aggresive

I then bit back because that is what they want and they are trying to bait me, and then I made a very rude and regrettable comment (should not have done it but I am clearly under stress)…. she then started talking down to me and being condescending and rude and being offensive

I am honestly sick of this now and want to take it further, what can I do? this is too stressful

Emmia

Unplug the camera? Or cut the wire.

The_Unready

Why can't you disable the Ring camera, or move it into the garage/cupboard/shed?

doubled1989

I did and didnt realise I left it on

Just wondering if theres anything illegal about it

If not that is fine and thread can be dismissed

Emmia

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/81951588#Comment_81951588

Then you can't have disabled it...

Personally I wouldn't have a camera like this recording/watching me in my home.

I have a separate Logitech webcam on my computer, and that has a (third party) flip down cover installed over the lens which is down 99.9% of the time (i.e. all the time when I'm not actually making a video call).

If you really want a camera, I'd buy a different system and use that - ensuring your ex is not aware of its existence.

Pollycat

For context, this is the OP's other thread:

Need some legal/smart advice about certain situations in a seperation where I am being bullied/setup — MoneySavingExpert Forum

which also references another thread about the kitchen.

sheramber

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6662870/more-advice-needed-sorry-and-keep-getting-bullied-by-more-and-more-people-in-the-ex-wife-family

https://mensadviceline.org.uk/