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Husband and brother disagree re break in

Trying to get some perspective on tricky situation.

Very elderly MIL has been in hospital since last Wednesday. Quite poorly but will probably recover.

Hubby and brother ( both live 1 - 2 hours drive away) went to her house to check post, empty fridge etc on Sunday morning.

Brother discovered a rear window had been jemmied and was wide open with muddy footprints on carpet and a few plants tipped up. Nothing else taken or damaged, including a laptop and tablet. Her house is in a poor state of repair, so assume they scarpered pretty quickly.

They disagreed on what to do next. Hubby overruled BIL and insisted on reporting to police to obtain crime number which he did online. BIL refused to call insurers and repaired the window fitting.

So far, MIL hasn't been told and BIL doesn't want her told ( although I think this might be the push at 95 she needs to go into residential care.) However, police want to interview her so she is going to find out at some point. They also informed both neighbours.

My concern is that having discovered the property is empty, the thieves may return and cause more damage which the insurers will then refuse to cover when they realise there has been more than one break in.

Is there any legal requirement to report to insurers? Any advice welcome

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