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Family member using my Bank account to buy X-box games - Refuses to stop. What can i do?

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  • If it is a CPA then Halifax lets you cancel these via app under manage subscriptions (tap the 3 dots at top right first)
  • Rob5342
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    edited 21 August at 10:15AM
    If he wanted to use your card instead of his own then he either didn't have the money available at the time or he set out to deliberately defraud you.

    Regardless of whats happened you have the power to stop money being taken from your own account. Does it show up in the "manage subscriptions" section of the app? If it does you can cancel it there, if not report it as stolen and tick the cancel card, new card and new pin options. 
  • penners324
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    Screenshot the reply and send it to his mother and her you want her to pay you back.

    Plus freeze the card. And get your bank to stop paying Xbox. It is fraud.

    Report the matter to the police as well
  • born_again
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    Screenshot the reply and send it to his mother and her you want her to pay you back.

    Plus freeze the card. And get your bank to stop paying Xbox. It is fraud.

    Report the matter to the police as well
    It's not fraud as OP agreed to it in the 1st place.
    Police will just say it is a civil matter.

    Even if police did get involved. Does OP really want it to develop into a family dispute?

    Screen shot. Good idea, although going & speaking to them might be better. 
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    Get a new bank account, preferable with a different bank.  Don't do a "switch" but rather do everything manually so the payments can't track through to the new account.  

    Drain the account the brat is using and ensure there is no overdraft facility so he can't make things any worse.
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    Screenshot the reply and send it to his mother and her you want her to pay you back.

    Plus freeze the card. And get your bank to stop paying Xbox. It is fraud.

    Report the matter to the police as well
    The mother is not responsible for her adult son's debts so that won't fly. 

    OP As advised, if this is a CPA then cancel it. Problem solved.    
  • born_again
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    Brie said:
    Get a new bank account, preferable with a different bank.  Don't do a "switch" but rather do everything manually so the payments can't track through to the new account.  

    Drain the account the brat is using and ensure there is no overdraft facility so he can't make things any worse.


    This is a extreme way, when OP's bank can stop it at source.
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  • Brie said:
    Get a new bank account, preferable with a different bank.  Don't do a "switch" but rather do everything manually so the payments can't track through to the new account.  

    Drain the account the brat is using and ensure there is no overdraft facility so he can't make things any worse.
    All well and good but won't work with a Continous Payment Authority.

    The even simpler solution has been given, cancel it in app or phone Halifax.
  • HillStreetBlues
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    Screenshot the reply and send it to his mother and her you want her to pay you back.

    Plus freeze the card. And get your bank to stop paying Xbox. It is fraud.

    Report the matter to the police as well
    It's not fraud as OP agreed to it in the 1st place.
    Police will just say it is a civil matter.

    Even if police did get involved. Does OP really want it to develop into a family dispute?

    Screen shot. Good idea, although going & speaking to them might be better. 
    It's not fraud but and a civil matter if refusing to pay back the money. But if the OP has stated not to use the card and the card continues to be used without repayment then that's theft.
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