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Please help me understand my nan's will
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It does sound more like a ‘goodwill gesture’ or gift from your grandad, when he mentioned a figure to your sister. This would be completely outside the will, and at a value of £1.5/£2k each, would likely be utilising his annual IHT allowance.It’s therefore not really relevant whose estate it’s from, it just a very kind gift from your grandad.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pension, Debt Free Wanabee, and Over 50 Money Saving boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the Report button, or by e-mailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.1
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Keep_pedalling said:NomadicBrit said:Keep_pedalling said:If you have been left anything the wording you have given for section 8 should read my daughter and my grand daughter not my daughter and my daughter. Is this correct?
Assuming the house was owned by your nan and grandfather, it is not now owned by your mum and your sister, your grandfather is the beneficial owner and legal ownership is between him and the trust created by your nan’s will. If gran was the sole owner then he is still the beneficial owner but the trust is the sole legal owner.Amending a will by deed of variation to avoid losing benefits is deliberate deprivation of assets so all that will achieve is losing both benefit and inheritance.
"My daughter" and "my daughter" is correct. My mum and her sister are both my nan's daughters. Didn't want to accidentally doxx them.
You're right about the deed of variation, but i wouldn't put it past my mum to try, sadly. Most people have no idea how cruel the benefits system is.
So because my mum now co-owns the house, because Grandad is living in it, it won't affect her benefits till my grandad passes. Is this correct?
Thank you so much for your insight!0 -
Thanks for all your replies, everyone.
The only real question I have left is that if I'm not entitled to claim anything from my nan's will, then why are me and my sister still going to benefit anyway? From where is that money coming from?
Does this happen often with wills? Is that money coming from a deed of variation so that me and my sister legally benefit? (especially now we're older with our own responsibilities)0 -
Smudgeismydog said:It does sound more like a ‘goodwill gesture’ or gift from your grandad, when he mentioned a figure to your sister. This would be completely outside the will, and at a value of £1.5/£2k each, would likely be utilising his annual IHT allowance.It’s therefore not really relevant whose estate it’s from, it just a very kind gift from your grandad.0
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With a deed of variation, the original beneficiaries (your mum and aunt), would make the decision not to receive some or all of their inheritance, and vary the terms of the will, so that it is passed to someone else. This would be entirely their decision, and not something you have any influence over.
It sounds as if your grandad simply wants to gift some money to you and your sister.
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NomadicBrit said:Thanks for all your replies, everyone.
The only real question I have left is that if I'm not entitled to claim anything from my nan's will, then why are me and my sister still going to benefit anyway? From where is that money coming from?
Does this happen often with wills? Is that money coming from a deed of variation so that me and my sister legally benefit? (especially now we're older with our own responsibilities)0 -
swingaloo said:NomadicBrit said:Thanks for all your replies, everyone.
The only real question I have left is that if I'm not entitled to claim anything from my nan's will, then why are me and my sister still going to benefit anyway? From where is that money coming from?
Does this happen often with wills? Is that money coming from a deed of variation so that me and my sister legally benefit? (especially now we're older with our own responsibilities)
after seeing other comments above, it's likely a gift, although i had no idea because i hadnt seen my nans will till today, nor did i understand it.0 -
Your mum hasn't inherited anything and won't until her father dies. At which point if £6k (the limit then) remains after paying any care fees for GF, she has to declare it and lose her benefits.
She will be expected to live fairly simply and then can claim benefits again when the money runs out. If she gives it away or blows it on luxuries, she gets no benefits and no money to live on.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
NomadicBrit said:swingaloo said:NomadicBrit said:Thanks for all your replies, everyone.
The only real question I have left is that if I'm not entitled to claim anything from my nan's will, then why are me and my sister still going to benefit anyway? From where is that money coming from?
Does this happen often with wills? Is that money coming from a deed of variation so that me and my sister legally benefit? (especially now we're older with our own responsibilities)
after seeing other comments above, it's likely a gift, although i had no idea because i hadnt seen my nans will till today, nor did i understand it.0 -
RAS said:Your mum hasn't inherited anything and won't until her father dies. At which point if £6k (the limit then) remains after paying any care fees for GF, she has to declare it and lose her benefits.
She will be expected to live fairly simply and then can claim benefits again when the money runs out. If she gives it away or blows it on luxuries, she gets no benefits and no money to live on.
As things stand, I don't think she realises exactly the inheritance trap she's going to walk to. considering she and her sister were both with my nan and grandad when they were finalising their wills years ago.
would've been much better to allocate part of her share to me and my sister, given we can work and invest, and she can not.0
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