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Inheritance, Housing benefit/Council tax benefit and debt
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itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.
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itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.0
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viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.However in terms of you saying you’ve loaned the money over 20 years – it’s not really a loan when she’s not managing day-to-day and it’s blindingly obvious you’re never going get the money back. If she hadn’t had the inheritance you probably had no expectation of any money back so I do think it’s on slightly dodgy ground calling it a loan now.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
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viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.0 bonus saver
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viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.
I presume you and your sister do not have the money to give back to her if the decision goes against her?0 bonus saver
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viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.
Unfortunately often in cases like this... but usually they come in advance of actions... there is a lot of concern from the Op as how things will be interpreted.... and sometimes argument over how they should or what is fair... ultimately the decision makers are not here... subjectivity by its nature is difficult to assert on another who may be furnished with variance on the facts or evidence.
As others advise... if worst came to worst and she found herself with income not fitting with her expenditure then this is a great site for advice... as someone raised... many communities have food larders... not food banks (which are something else).. where you can get lots of food very cheaply... we pay £2 twice a week for around £30-£60 worth of foodstuffs and most of it is from M&S lately or charitable collection of locally grown fruit and veg that would otherwise go to waste etc...lol. Lots of options including help with services bills etc. My fear is you and others seem to be erm... the buckstop for the subject of the thread... they seem to need a lot of financial guidance/support and some may say it's time for them to be more responsible....I mean I agree with above... a loan 15 years old is not a loan unless it was agreed never to be paid back within 15 years.. I think anyone reasonable would say the person has had no intent to pay it back and so it was more likely considered a gift by them."Do not attribute to conspiracy what can adequately be explained by incompetence" - rogerblack0 -
elsien said:viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.However in terms of you saying you’ve loaned the money over 20 years – it’s not really a loan when she’s not managing day-to-day and it’s blindingly obvious you’re never going get the money back. If she hadn’t had the inheritance you probably had no expectation of any money back so I do think it’s on slightly dodgy ground calling it a loan now.0
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itsthelittlethings said:viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.0
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itsthelittlethings said:viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.
I presume you and your sister do not have the money to give back to her if the decision goes against her?0 -
Muttleythefrog said:viksviks84 said:itsthelittlethings said:State pension, housing benefit and council tax benefit adds up to an ok amount. She should be able to afford to live. She may not be taking any flights to visit you. If you want to support her research local organisations which support people on low incomes, sometimes there are food pantries which as not food banks as such. Age Concern might also be able to help with advice.
Unfortunately often in cases like this... but usually they come in advance of actions... there is a lot of concern from the Op as how things will be interpreted.... and sometimes argument over how they should or what is fair... ultimately the decision makers are not here... subjectivity by its nature is difficult to assert on another who may be furnished with variance on the facts or evidence.
As others advise... if worst came to worst and she found herself with income not fitting with her expenditure then this is a great site for advice... as someone raised... many communities have food larders... not food banks (which are something else).. where you can get lots of food very cheaply... we pay £2 twice a week for around £30-£60 worth of foodstuffs and most of it is from M&S lately or charitable collection of locally grown fruit and veg that would otherwise go to waste etc...lol. Lots of options including help with services bills etc. My fear is you and others seem to be erm... the buckstop for the subject of the thread... they seem to need a lot of financial guidance/support and some may say it's time for them to be more responsible....I mean I agree with above... a loan 15 years old is not a loan unless it was agreed never to be paid back within 15 years.. I think anyone reasonable would say the person has had no intent to pay it back and so it was more likely considered a gift by them.0
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