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Buying a house for a parent
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GDB2222 said:Tax:
If the present family home is worth millions, you should be getting paid-for professional advice.
If the present family is much more modest in value, you should avoid weird and wonderful complicated plans. Those are likely to create a tax liability. Bear in mind that there's no CGT on death, and family homes up to £1m are effectively free of IHT. (That's a gross oversimplification, but it gives you a flavour of the position.)
If dad passes money to you, and you buy mum a house, you'll have a CGT bill if it goes up in value. So, you've created a tax liability, where none existed.
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sheramber said:GDB2222 said:Tax:
If the present family home is worth millions, you should be getting paid-for professional advice.
If the present family is much more modest in value, you should avoid weird and wonderful complicated plans. Those are likely to create a tax liability. Bear in mind that there's no CGT on death, and family homes up to £1m are effectively free of IHT. (That's a gross oversimplification, but it gives you a flavour of the position.)
If dad passes money to you, and you buy mum a house, you'll have a CGT bill if it goes up in value. So, you've created a tax liability, where none existed.
No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?2 -
If you really need an in-between home to let your mum sell her current one then prepare the new one before moving in, have you considered renting?My parents did this (sold the family home then moved into a rented property while their new house was built) and it worked out well for them.N. Hampshire, he/him. Octopus Intelligent Go elec & Tracker gas / Vodafone BB / iD mobile. Ripple Kirk Hill member.
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Thanks again for all the replies. It sounds on balance like this probably isn't a practical option, but you've given us lots more information that we can use to discuss the future options as a family.GDB2222 said:Feelings:
DW and I are in our seventies, still living in the family home that we brought five children up in. It's obviously far too big. We've been here nearly 30 years. We did quite a lot of work when we moved in, but very little since, and the house is getting dilapidated. It's hard to heat, and hard to clean. We ought to downsize
BUT, especially as we've lived here almost 30 years, we're very attached to it. None of the smaller and cheaper homes are appealing.
If one of us were ill, the very last thing we would want to do is think about moving as well.
I understand that your dad wants to try to help, as long as he is still able, but maybe the best thing he can do is nothing.
Thanks all for your wisdom.1
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