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a4007035
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Hi
My friend iscurrently going through a grievance process where a grievance has been made against hin.
There were 4 allegations of which only one has been upheld.
The one that was upheld relates inappropriate comments that he made to a colleague when he was having a discussion outside of work about other colleagues in the team. In the investigation he cooperated fully and he agreed the comments were inappropriate and fell short of the values and standards of the company. The colleague who he was having the conversation with has left the business. The comments were about the aesthetics of females in the team.
He has the disciplinary outcome meeting coming up. He is confident that the outcome will be dismissal.
He would like to know what are his options and what is the best course of option. Resign before the outcome is read? Appeal or go down the legal route?
My friend iscurrently going through a grievance process where a grievance has been made against hin.
There were 4 allegations of which only one has been upheld.
The one that was upheld relates inappropriate comments that he made to a colleague when he was having a discussion outside of work about other colleagues in the team. In the investigation he cooperated fully and he agreed the comments were inappropriate and fell short of the values and standards of the company. The colleague who he was having the conversation with has left the business. The comments were about the aesthetics of females in the team.
He has the disciplinary outcome meeting coming up. He is confident that the outcome will be dismissal.
He would like to know what are his options and what is the best course of option. Resign before the outcome is read? Appeal or go down the legal route?
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Wait for the outcome.
He cannot appeal against something that hasn't yet happened.
What "legal route" do you think he can go down if he has admitted to making inappropriate comments and the company has correctly followed their internal procedures?0 -
Ayr_Rage said:Wait for the outcome.
He cannot appeal against something that hasn't yet happened.
What "legal route" do you think he can go down if he has admitted to making inappropriate comments and the company has correctly followed their internal procedures?
If he were to be dismissed (and he may not be) then his only possible appeal or tribunal claim would be if it was beyond the sanction "a reasonable employer might choose" for the offence.
In all normal circumstances an employment tribunal would expect the claimant to have exhausted the employer's internal appeal process first.0 -
So he had the outcome meeting today. His manager advised him that if it's heading that it's going the wrong way to pause the meeting and then had in his resignation.
When HR came in they told him it was bad news. So he paused the meeting and resigned.
I thought he would go through the outcome and then appeal on the grounds that the punishment was not proportionate to the incident.0 -
"Resignation During Disciplinary Process" is seen in a very similar way to being fired, people make assumption that those that jump were guilty. Ultimately it's done and dusted but may not have saved themselves that much.1
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a4007035 said:So he had the outcome meeting today. His manager advised him that if it's heading that it's going the wrong way to pause the meeting and then had in his resignation.
When HR came in they told him it was bad news. So he paused the meeting and resigned.
I thought he would go through the outcome and then appeal on the grounds that the punishment was not proportionate to the incident.0 -
Thanks. I'm telling him to retract his resignation and go through with the outcome and then appeal. Or seek legal advice for unfair dismissal. He's not listening though.0
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"Bad news" could've been a final written warning and the advice from his manager seems to me as completely out of left field.
He may well have burnt his bridges by resigning but I am sure a legal expert will be able to clarify what he can do next.
Your friend doesn't even know the outcome, let alone what he may be appealing against!1 -
If his resignation is in writing or e-mail and the employer has accepted it, he can't just "retract" it.If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales1
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a4007035 said:Thanks. I'm telling him to retract his resignation and go through with the outcome and then appeal. Or seek legal advice for unfair dismissal. He's not listening though.
Your friend's judgement seems to be off in several areas and that's for him to reflect on. Sometimes you just have to let people make the mistakes you can see coming from a mile away and hope they learn something from the experience.1 -
a4007035 said:Thanks. I'm telling him to retract his resignation and go through with the outcome and then appeal. Or seek legal advice for unfair dismissal. He's not listening though.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!1
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