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also, as I mentioned, the markup on jewelery, watches etc is so high you would lose a substantial amount when you eventually came to sell it.4
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Mgman1965 said:Keep_pedalling said:Would you actually want your MIL being dependant on a cash strapped LA for residential care?If you put more money in via the way of a mortgage she would be able to retain a larger savings pot to be used if the worse should happen.
Contrary to what some seem to think, it's not a scheme to avoid care costs but,
MIL was talking about equity release on her house and gifting family members the max she legally can "to stop the local council taking it" and we thought our idea could be a better solution.
Maybe not., but it's her house and money to do as she wishes.Mgman1965 said:Update.
MIL is very savvy and canny (always has been).She bought her council house many years ago at a huge discount, mortage free from an inheritance, saying then it was a no- brainer for both property values and the savings on rent.
MIL is of the generation that you save (and have to leave an inheritance) not spend
Anyway, she's decided.
Combining assets is to complicated and can be problematic tax wise and DOE.
Equity release is a "Con" and akin to "giving a large part of your house away" with the fees and interest charged.
Now she's looking into selling her house (about 300k), buying the smallest, cheapest flat (with low charges) near to us she can find.
Keep the maximum in cash savings allowed in the bank by the LA for asset purposes.
And "invest" the rest in (her words) "non traceable assets" such as Gold, platinum rings that can be kept at home or in a safety deposit box, Medium to High-end jewellery even watches, items that can be claimed as "personal items" not Assets and be forced to sell or be taken as DOA for buying and "later, cough cough") sold on or kept.
Honestly, this woman has to much time, an I-Pad and a crafty brain (she should be a Mafia financial advisor 😃).
Despite you saying that it's not, it does look very clear to me that your (OP's) intention is to deprive assets. The only question is whether or not your mother will get away with it. Personally I would want to isolate myself from anything this dodgy (as I see it).3 -
MIL was talking about equity release on her house and gifting family members the max she legally can "to stop the local council taking it" and we thought our idea could be a better solution
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And "invest" the rest in (her words) "non traceable assets" such as Gold, platinum rings that can be kept at home or in a safety deposit box, Medium to High-end jewellery even watches, items that can be claimed as "personal items" not Assets and be forced to sell or be taken as DOA for buying and "later, cough cough") sold on or kept.
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Honestly I'm sick of DoA threads, I've reported it.
You can't ask advice for robbing banks, yet it's seemingly OK to seek advice on robbing taxpayers. It shouldn't be allowed, there shouldn't be a back and forward about what might be looked into and what might not. The OP is clearly not trying to steer their MIL into the light and there's an obvious motivation why not.
And that's disregarding the sheer audacity of asking forum members, aka taxpayers, on the best way to fleece themselves.
If your MIL does not want to pay for her own care, who does she think will be picking up the bill? Or does she simply not care?
She's already enjoyed the benefit of "(buying) her council house many years ago at a huge discount" off the back of the council/taxpayer, I'm surprised she's so desperate to make the council/taxpayer pay even more.
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I personally don't think this thread should be deleted in that I suspect quite a lot of people at least consider how they can legally avoid care fees should the need arise
Most of the options people come up with don't work and threads like this show people why1 -
People are also deluded about the standard of care a local authority aka the taxpayer will provide.
As I've said umpteenth times the when is just as important as the where, you have to be extremely decrepit before a LA will pay for a care home, which leads to situations where the individual really needed residential care years before they got it.
This leads to very stressful situations not just for the individual but their family, whom the LA will pressure to call in on top of maximum number of funded care visits.
You might end up in a situation like my friend did (POA) also fielding calls from multiple other agencies concerned that the individual needed residential care (LA wouldn't pay until Hospital forced them).2 -
I am working with someone in a Local authority funded care home who has their personal allowance of £30 a week. The care home has just introduced a charge of £60 if you want to go out one-to-one with a carer up to 6 hours and £100 for longer than that. So her trip to the chiropodist and hairdresser and a coffee while out is now going to cost 60 quid on top of the other costs.
The care homes argument is that they have a chiropodist and hairdresser coming in. My argument is that people want to get out to stop feeling locked in to have a change of scenery and to use the hairdresser that they may be been using for years. So basic quality of life.
That is the sort of thing that extra money will get you, aside from everything else.Not everyone can rely on family to come and transport them about.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.4 -
elsien said:I am working with someone in a Local authority funded care home who has their personal allowance of £30 a week. The care home has just introduced a charge of £60 if you want to go out one-to-one with a carer up to 6 hours and £100 for longer than that. So her trip to the chiropodist and hairdresser and a coffee while out is now going to cost 60 quid on top of the other costs.
The care homes argument is that they have a chiropodist and hairdresser coming in. My argument is that people want to get out to stop feeling locked in to have a change of scenery and to use the hairdresser that they may be been using for years. So basic quality of life.
That is the sort of thing that extra money will get you, aside from everything else.Many people seem to think their assets will be seized. There is no seizure, a self funded resident is expected to pay their bill in whichever way best fits their circumstances. For most this is a combination of pension income and either income from assets or savings. Funds may last a lot longer than a person might think.2 -
Many people seem to think their assets will be seized.
This is partly due to the way the media present these stories, so the fear that it will happen, is disproportionate to the likelihood it will actually happen.1 -
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