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I don't know if I should be paying CSA

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So, I have been paying CSA to the mother of my daughter for nearly 2 years now although I wonder if I should be paying it all. My daughter stays with me at least 4 nights a week every week, this week is going to be 5 nights and my daughter often stays with my parents 1 night a week nearly every week as well. Why am I paying the mother CSA when she only has her daughter 1-2 nights a week? I know it doesn't get spent on my daughter or bills or anything it should be spent on and I care for her equally if not more it seems crazy to me. Please can anyone provide me with any help and advice on this? 

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  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,337 Forumite
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    To change it, you'll need to have the CSA recalculate.

    What were the arrangements when you first started paying?

    Have you contacted them?
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  • Loza2016
    Loza2016 Posts: 158 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 100 Posts
    I would contact them personally don’t think you should be. 
    When I split with my daughter’s Dad I had her 4 nights & Dad had her 3. Never crossed my mind to claim money off him when it was as equal split as you could get. I did however claim the child benefit for her. 
    If you’re having her more she should be paying you in my opinion. 
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