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Neighbour shed on land. Need to build fence. Advice needed

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  • Kat1122
    Kat1122 Posts: 24 Forumite
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    Thanks so much for your reply. 

    I had to check we do have legal protection thankfully. 

    Thanks for all your advice. I agree would be sensible to give them a phone (will need to be weekend when dad can watch kids) and then go from there. But I think that phoning the council about pole and then asking them to explain is a good point. I briefly spoke to the council about it before and she stated he needed to realise things don't work the way he wants it to which made me think there was more too it as well. 

    I agree. I think they know exactly what they are doing. Very annoying as they have a massive side garden that gets all the sun which we don't have as we have more houses but he's end of street so got about twice the garden of us so no need. 

    I'm hoping it should be easy enough as he's a tenant and not owner. We are very calm and chilled out people so will work in our favour. Will try and get a photo soon of how to split is on the back of houses. 
  • ThisIsWeird
    ThisIsWeird Posts: 7,935 Forumite
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    Kat1122 said:
    Thanks so much for your reply.
    I had to check we do have legal protection thankfully.
    Thanks for all your advice. I agree would be sensible to give them a phone (will need to be weekend when dad can watch kids) and then go from there. But I think that phoning the council about pole and then asking them to explain is a good point. I briefly spoke to the council about it before and she stated he needed to realise things don't work the way he wants it to which made me think there was more too it as well.
    I agree. I think they know exactly what they are doing. Very annoying as they have a massive side garden that gets all the sun which we don't have as we have more houses but he's end of street so got about twice the garden of us so no need.
    I'm hoping it should be easy enough as he's a tenant and not owner. We are very calm and chilled out people so will work in our favour. Will try and get a photo soon of how to split is on the back of houses. 
    That's great news!
    Folk like that can blur the issue and make you second-guess yourself. It's a Trumpian way of operating; they act sooo entitled, sooo seemingly certain they are right, sooo pushing the boundaries, that you can actually feel 'bad' for challenging them! 
    Just matter of fact. And you are backed by your LegProt.
    See how you get on with the council's help, and hopefully that'll be enough. But if you need to talk with the neighbour, then record it. Keep all recordings secure, and don't share them with anybody. Just use it so you can relate, verbatim, what both parties have said.
    Then call your LegProt - you have it, you've paid for it, so be fully guided by them. In the unlikely event that this needs to go full legal, you can then inform your LP solicitor that you have the recordings, if needed, to back up what was said.


  • teaselMay
    teaselMay Posts: 666 Forumite
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    Oh well done you, and the council eventually too!
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