First Post/Help Needed

sianreu

Thanks Miss Eyers & weslshgirl78, much apprieciated.

had my session with CCC's this morning, not sure how i feel, relieved a bit but still like I have a huge cloud over me, haven't eaten or slept now for a while.

anyway, i'll post all the details later in case anyone is interested even stil for my own reference here i would lke to

my mortage lender is ok with us on the 1 month arrears but there is much to do and I now need to wait for teh CCCS review to be sent and I can send some letters off to my creditors.

i have no enrgy left to write any more other than a massive tjhaks to everyone here, you're all amazing, thank you

beanielou

LEt us know how you got on when you feel up to it.
Take care.

sianreu

beanielou wrote: »

LEt us know how you got on when you feel up to it.
Take care.

thanks beanilou

I really wanted to come back and say how well I have been doing but it's not the case, my plan from CCCS should arive tomorow, they have been great but I haven't.

I feel im falling apart, mariage looks destined to crash and now have caled samaritans (the lady was nice but what can they do?)

I have a lot to face up to, it all seems too much right now

BlondeHeadOn

Just to send you a hug because it sounds like you need one, and to say: it may all seem overwhelming at the moment, but stick with it - it does get better, honest. And there is so much support and great advice on here you never need to cope with it all alone.

It's nearly the weekend anyway, so aim to catch up on eating, sleeping and relaxing on Saturday and Sunday - you can't do much to change things then anyway because most places are closed, so give yourself a bit of 'me' time. It will all seem easier with a bit of time out.

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

sianreu

BlondeHeadOn wrote: »

Just to send you a hug because it sounds like you need one, and to say: it may all seem overwhelming at the moment, but stick with it - it does get better, honest. And there is so much support and great advice on here you never need to cope with it all alone.

It's nearly the weekend anyway, so aim to catch up on eating, sleeping and relaxing on Saturday and Sunday - you can't do much to change things then anyway because most places are closed, so give yourself a bit of 'me' time. It will all seem easier with a bit of time out.

:grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

Thanks blondeheadon, i'll come back when I can be a bit more positive, don't think im helping anyone here

Thanks for teh hug though

beanielou

Hope things are ok-ish wth you today.
Sometimes it can help to 'talk' so dont worry about not being postitive.

sianreu

beanielou wrote: »

Hope things are ok-ish wth you today.
Sometimes it can help to 'talk' so dont worry about not being postitive.

I'm hanging in there. Tommorrow can't come fast enough.

The only plans I can make now are to get a good nights sleep and try and be as positive as possible tomorrow and eat something!.

Then start getting back on track, because I have lots to do, lots! can't be crying no more and feeling down, got to move on now, after all thats why I here.

thanks for listening

Lemon_Tree

sianreu wrote: »

i'll come back when I can be a bit more positive, don't think im helping anyone here

This time it's us that's here to help you so stay on here no matter how bad you feel, you'll get support and no one minds if you have to vent or just get things off your mind. We've all done it at one time or another.

sianreu

Just a quick update.

Sent my pro rata leters to my creditors, been a few days but still not received anything back.

Got some part time work starting next week but won't be a great deal. GP has advised anti-depressants which I have started today.