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Debt Problems, don't want an IVA but seems the only solution


I'm currently considering an IVA through StepChange and would really appreciate some advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation.
I have £46K of unsecured debt spread across three loans and three credit cards, and I’m feeling stuck despite trying multiple options.
Here’s my situation:
I own a house with around £360K equity 168K plus 90K HTB, but it’s a Help to Buy property, which complicates things.
I’ve tried to remortgage, but the bank declined due to affordability issues.
I looked into a secured loan, but no lender wants to take a third charge on the property, apart from one predatory lender offering 11% interest over 20 years with £5K in setup fees — which I’m not willing to take on.
Selling the house isn’t an option because my partner owns 50% and has made it clear that this is my problem to solve. We also have a teenager, so uprooting them would be a last resort.
Thinking about an IVA, I’d need to make payments for five years. If my partner refuses to remortgage, I’d need to do an additional sixth year of payments.
I’ve already done everything I can to cut back:
I’m working two jobs, earning £51K from my main job and £6K from a part-time job.
I made an extra £2K last year from car boot sales.
I’ve sold my car and now rely on public transport.
Despite all this, I’ve not made any real progress in reducing the debt. I’m 48 years old and have been paying into a well-funded pension since I was 24 (contributing 14% of my salary). I’ve got 15 years left on my mortgage, and my plan is to pay that off and retire — I have no intention of borrowing again in the future.
I’m physically struggling to keep working two jobs. I need a way forward, and I’m open to any solutions or advice.
I've contacted StepChange and they are saying do Debt Management Plan (DMP), realistically that going to take me 10 years, also not protect my house from creditors
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Is an IVA the best option, or is there something I’ve missed?
Thanks in advance for any insights — it’s much appreciated.
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OK an IVA may be the answer, but more information needed, your partner is on the mortgage?
Do you have any joint accounts?
How was the debt accrued?
Totally for you or any for the family?If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
Why do you think a DMP threatens your house?
Do you understand that if you default on your unsecured debt, the interest halts? And down the line you will probably get discounted settlement deals that reduce the time you need to clear the debt?If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
Grumpelstiltskin said:OK an IVA may be the answer, but more information needed, your partner is on the mortgage?
Do you have any joint accounts?
How was the debt accrued?
Totally for you or any for the family?
We have a join house account, current account no overdraft
wife has a couple of grand on a credit card she is slowly paying back on a 0% deal - she doesn't have a big income, also not a lot of debt.
debt accrued by over spending and i tried to start a business ( to increase my income) that failed and i threw good money after my losses
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Sorry to hear of your problems. From a practical point of view, you need jointly to sort out a clear budget covering your essential spends and to sort out any over-spends. And then to cut back more to allow overpayment of the debts. An IVA budget is very tight and will get tighter over the years. They will probably apportion living costs pro-rata depending on your incomes.
And whatever debt solution you choose, you need to close that joint account now, as the financial association will affect your wife's credit record.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
RAS said:Sorry to hear of your problems. From a practical point of view, you need jointly to sort out a clear budget covering your essential spends and to sort out any over-spends. And then to cut back more to allow overpayment of the debts. An IVA budget is very tight and will get tighter over the years. They will probably apportion living costs pro-rata depending on your incomes.
And whatever debt solution you choose, you need to close that joint account now, as the financial association will affect your wife's credit record.0 -
This is not something about which you should be making a decision without a lot more information. Not least as without your spouse's support, your need her to fully understand the consequences of both options.
I'd suggest that you do a Statement of Affairs and ask some more of the experienced posters here to advise whether your expenditure would be acceptable to DMP providers or IVA providers. Bear in mind that DMP budgets can be adjusted easily. IVA adjustments exceeding 10% need creditor approval.
If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
Whatever you do do not rush into anything without a lot more research yourself.
Nothing is urgent, you don't want to make the wrong decision.If you go down to the woods today you better not go alone.0 -
Both are on the table still, both have their advantages, and disadvantages, for an IVA to work, you need to have a stable income over the next 6 years, your IVA will swallow much of any bonus/overtime/windfall you may have during this time, but your home will be legally protected from creditors.
A DMP is a lot more informal, you can choose what to pay to whom, any extra money is yours to keep, in reality lenders do not go after houses if they are being paid on a regular basis, your debts will likely be sold, and bought for pennies in the £, so settlement offer will almost certainly be available later on in the process.
That can save you some cash, but you must remember to save an emergency fund for possible settlement later on.
A DMP will take longer, but can be ended earlier if offers are accepted, its down to you really if you want a formal solution in the IVA, or an informal, flexible one in the DMP.
Having had both options in the past, I would veer away from the IVA, as they really only benefit the IP, I would opt for the DMP as its flexibility and informal nature are more appealing, than the strict budget regime of an IVA.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter1 -
RAS said:And whatever debt solution you choose, you need to close that joint account now, as the financial association will affect your wife's credit record.
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Have Step Change said an IVA isnt an option, if so its probably because they think your creditors will reject one as you have too much equity.
Lets see your SOA.0
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