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Daughter going to Uni

jasonhenley
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Hi
I’m a single Dad of 3 and my eldest has been accepted to Uni in September 2025. Currently I receive UC and also child benefit.
I’m a single Dad of 3 and my eldest has been accepted to Uni in September 2025. Currently I receive UC and also child benefit.
From what I understand, these will stop for her.
She will be living at home (as Uni is 30 miles away and will drive).
I need her to contribute to bills etc. but what do other parents in this situation charge? She has a PT job, and will need to also take a loan out.
Any help or guidance much appreciated.
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A good baseline would be the amounts in benefit that will stop.
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I never agree with charging £ for £ when benefits reduce, she is no longer a dependent child so shouldn't be expected to match the benefit income you got for one.
Parents who charge like for like are just delaying the inevitable, as when they move out the financial shock will hit harder, than parents who found the level for a household of adults co habiting.0 -
jasonhenley said:Hi
I’m a single Dad of 3 and my eldest has been accepted to Uni in September 2025. Currently I receive UC and also child benefit.From what I understand, these will stop for her.She will be living at home (as Uni is 30 miles away and will drive).I need her to contribute to bills etc. but what do other parents in this situation charge? She has a PT job, and will need to also take a loan out.Any help or guidance much appreciated.
If in England, your UC may drop but will you not still get Child Benefit for 2 children? (I'm thinking in terms of how much to ask for). In your position I'd probably suggest she give you an amount towards her share of the food and maybe a percentage of the utilities. On the part-time job, is she going to be able to keep it up if she's driving 30 miles each way, studying and trying to establish a new life at Uni?
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My youngest was living at home for the first few weeks, and I explained that he did have to contribute, because his loan was not ALL his personal spending money! I can't remember what we charged at this stage.
I think you're going to have to sit down and discuss bills etc with her as an adult ...Signature removed for peace of mind0 -
How much student loan will she receive? The amount is based on your income. Mine live/d away and received the minimum amount so we had to top up. If it had been possible for them to live at home it would have been cheaper for me even if theyd never contributed.0
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The means-tested student loan is a bizarre thing!It's not a grant, so why is it means tested?In one of my sons cases, his accommodation took up all of his loan.And the interest rate is RPI+3%, so the loans are above inflation.Our children are being ripped off rather than invested in for the country's future.
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If you have a low income then check to see if there are any bursaries available from the university.0
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