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Is it all too good to be true?

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  • cfw1994 said:
    Doesn’t your other thread show you are WAY above a safety net with what you have now?

    My wife was VERY supportive of me stepping away asap - how does yours feel?
    My wife says I should retire, its me who is the problem
    This and another active thread at the moment make me wonder if anxiety about retirement is more prevalent than we think. The abolition of standard retirement age has introduced choice and some personality types will then consider risk and mitigatations in a way they may not have if the calendar made the choice for them.

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  • Bobziz
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    NoMore said:
    I honestly think the op will never have enough in their eyes, way too worried about the downside.  




    Unfortunately I think you may be correct.
    But isn't the ultimate downside dying before retirement or soon after ?
  • Hoenir
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    edited 10 November 2024 at 7:30PM
    Bobziz said:
    NoMore said:
    I honestly think the op will never have enough in their eyes, way too worried about the downside.  




    Unfortunately I think you may be correct.
    But isn't the ultimate downside dying before retirement or soon after ?
    I have a friend who retired at from 55 from her post in the NHS. 15 months later she was diagnosed with early onset dementia. To watch her deteroriate over the years has been truly heartbreaking. Having money to spend means very little. 
  • cfw1994
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    cfw1994 said:
    Doesn’t your other thread show you are WAY above a safety net with what you have now?

    My wife was VERY supportive of me stepping away asap - how does yours feel?
    My wife says I should retire, its me who is the problem
    This and another active thread at the moment make me wonder if anxiety about retirement is more prevalent than we think. The abolition of standard retirement age has introduced choice and some personality types will then consider risk and mitigatations in a way they may not have if the calendar made the choice for them.

    That’s probably about right 🤷‍♂️

    One thing to remember is every year you work is one less you are retired.

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  • squirrelpie
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    Starmer24 said:
    i wonder if the issue is related to DC pensions...My analogy is that i have been blowing up an inflatable ball for 35 years...very vigorously in the last 20, and now it feels like a real "leap" to stop pumping it up, and indeed pull the valve out and start letting all the air out....not knowing if you have inflated it enough or not ... - and there is no CLEAR ANSWER.
    You may be right. We think we're lucky. My wife was a nurse, so has a reasonable DB pension. My last job happened to have a DB pension and I happened to have been there 13 years. And we both have state pensions. So that covers pretty much all our needs. We have some other savings and I have a SIPP, but at present we don't need those much.
    If we didn't have the DB pensions, I'd seriously consider buying an annuity or two to provide for the necessities. (it wasn't a teribly sensible option when I retired, but I think it is now). That might reduce the stakes and the stress in the decision somewhat.
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