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Sellers now able to change estimated delivery date after purchase

Debbie9009
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Not sure if this is a new thing or if I’ve just never had it happen before.
Purchased an item on 20th Oct with an estimated delivery date of 1st-2nd Nov, a couple of days after I purchased the estimated delivery date changed to 2-3rd Dec which I wasn’t happy with, and wouldn’t have purchased if that had been the date shown when I made the purchase.
On the 29th Oct the item still hadn’t been dispatched so I requested a cancellation, the seller declined this on the 30th Oct saying it had been despatched. It stil hasn’t arrived and it still marked as waiting to be dispatched still with an estimated date of 2-3rd Dec, so I’m not able to do an INR, so I contacted the seller by eBay message and said it must have either been lost or not yet dispatched and could they please refund, as the delivery estimate is now Dec and that is too long to wait. They told me the delivery was now December due to being away for work and they would look into what has happened with the skirt. If I don’t hear back by Monday I will contact eBay and ask them to step in. The skirt is still showing as not dispatched.
I wasn’t aware sellers could change the delivery date, and this really puts me off buying anything else from eBay. Unless it’s a glitch, the reason I am so sure I have the original date correct is because I was away until the 31st Oct so checked the date carefully to make sure I would be back.
Purchased an item on 20th Oct with an estimated delivery date of 1st-2nd Nov, a couple of days after I purchased the estimated delivery date changed to 2-3rd Dec which I wasn’t happy with, and wouldn’t have purchased if that had been the date shown when I made the purchase.
On the 29th Oct the item still hadn’t been dispatched so I requested a cancellation, the seller declined this on the 30th Oct saying it had been despatched. It stil hasn’t arrived and it still marked as waiting to be dispatched still with an estimated date of 2-3rd Dec, so I’m not able to do an INR, so I contacted the seller by eBay message and said it must have either been lost or not yet dispatched and could they please refund, as the delivery estimate is now Dec and that is too long to wait. They told me the delivery was now December due to being away for work and they would look into what has happened with the skirt. If I don’t hear back by Monday I will contact eBay and ask them to step in. The skirt is still showing as not dispatched.
I wasn’t aware sellers could change the delivery date, and this really puts me off buying anything else from eBay. Unless it’s a glitch, the reason I am so sure I have the original date correct is because I was away until the 31st Oct so checked the date carefully to make sure I would be back.
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Sellers can’t change the delivery date, either it changed between you checking out the listing and actually buying it, or it’s some sort of very strange one off glitch.Due to the extra long delivery estimate I might be tempted to take this one up with eBay and explain that the wait is too long, item hasn’t been sent and seller won’t consider a cancellation. It might be worth a try.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.1
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I did think it was a bit strange, maybe it did change between me checking the listing and buying, that does seem the most likely explanation, and that I just didn’t notice until a couple of days later.
i’ll give the seller the weekend, and if I don’t hear anything further, I’ll try contacting eBay.0 -
Does the seller have more than 1 item for sale? Thought the same a few times, checking the delivery dates it shows 4 or 5 days away
where I thought it was due for delivery sooner. Checking properly showed they had another identical item listed.Censorship Reigns Supreme in Troll City...0 -
I buy loads of stuff from eBay. A recent purchase showed this
“Running behind, original estimate was Mon 4 Nov - Wed 6 Nov”. I was then told it would be delivered on 7th November. It’s now 9th, no sign yet.So it looks as if the seller has changed the date.We live in sheltered housing. There’s always someone around to take post in or the court manager will keep it for us if we are away. In 7 years I’ve never had an item going missing.0 -
Murphybear said:I buy loads of stuff from eBay. A recent purchase showed this
“Running behind, original estimate was Mon 4 Nov - Wed 6 Nov”. I was then told it would be delivered on 7th November. It’s now 9th, no sign yet.So it looks as if the seller has changed the date.We live in sheltered housing. There’s always someone around to take post in or the court manager will keep it for us if we are away. In 7 years I’ve never had an item going missing.
The date is possibly changing based on tracking information that eBay’s system is automatically monitoring.You have to remember they are ‘estimated’ dates, they are not promises. All postal services see occasional delays, some worse than others. And it’s that time of year when volumes start to increase in the lead up to Christmas causing more delays than usual.2 -
Debbie9009 said:I did think it was a bit strange, maybe it did change between me checking the listing and buying, that does seem the most likely explanation, and that I just didn’t notice until a couple of days later.
i’ll give the seller the weekend, and if I don’t hear anything further, I’ll try contacting eBay.
The date on the listing will change daily but that does not relate to an order already placed.1 -
Murphybear said:I buy loads of stuff from eBay. A recent purchase showed this
“Running behind, original estimate was Mon 4 Nov - Wed 6 Nov”. I was then told it would be delivered on 7th November. It’s now 9th, no sign yet.So it looks as if the seller has changed the date.We live in sheltered housing. There’s always someone around to take post in or the court manager will keep it for us if we are away. In 7 years I’ve never had an item going missing.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0 -
I’m looking at the item I have purchased in my order page, and it also hasn’t been marked as dispatched yet. I think the most likely explanation if that the seller changed the dates on their listing just before I clicked to buy so I didn’t see the update. I am a little frustrated that it still hasn’t been dispatched and the seller is refusing to cancel and refund. I can’t open a INR because the estimated delivery hasn’t passed yet.
i think the best thing for my to do is to try and contact eBay on Monday.0 -
Debbie9009 said:I’m looking at the item I have purchased in my order page, and it also hasn’t been marked as dispatched yet. I think the most likely explanation if that the seller changed the dates on their listing just before I clicked to buy so I didn’t see the update. I am a little frustrated that it still hasn’t been dispatched and the seller is refusing to cancel and refund. I can’t open a INR because the estimated delivery hasn’t passed yet.
i think the best thing for my to do is to try and contact eBay on Monday.
I think what has happened in your case is the seller has switched on holiday mode between you noticing the original date and clicking to buy. With holiday mode they set a date for their return but can choose to keep the listings visible and buyable. That would explain a month added to the original delivery date you saw.
If you look at their listings now is there a message at the top that says something like “this seller is away”?
That would mean they probably haven’t dispatched it yet so should be able to cancel. Something isn’t quite right.0 -
Murphybear said:I buy loads of stuff from eBay. A recent purchase showed this
“Running behind, original estimate was Mon 4 Nov - Wed 6 Nov”. I was then told it would be delivered on 7th November. It’s now 9th, no sign yet.So it looks as if the seller has changed the date.We live in sheltered housing. There’s always someone around to take post in or the court manager will keep it for us if we are away. In 7 years I’ve never had an item going missing.
'Running behind, original estimate was Thu 7 Nov - Sat 9 Nov'
so the original estimate was actually within the despatch date- I didn't even have to despatch it until the 8th . I changed nothing at all, item was sent on the 7th and is now apparently 'late' whereas RM would not even consider it overdue until at least 11th or 12th.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0
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