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  • basketcase
    basketcase Posts: 1,229 Forumite
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    Maybe I should send my daughter to you.

    I used to be terrible for buying bits n pieces for people.  Or gadgets for myself.  (I do like a good gadget!  :) )  Maybe ornaments for Christmas or something.

    A couple of years back we went to Istanbul for a holiday and to a Christmas Market later in the year.  On both occasions we'd be wandering round the bazaar/stalls  I'd point something out, ask if she liked it.  Very often she'd say:
    "Yes, but...
    • I've nowhere to put it (she didn't have a flat at the time)
    • It might not fit in with what I eventually want
    • It's expensive for what it is and
    • It's breakable, so we'd never get it home anyway.
    • Which means it isn't needed.
    • It's nice but not worth it
    That means it's tat, mum - even if it's nice, expensive tat.
    So you'd be wasting your money.
    Move awaaaay from the stall!" 

    Now, every time I go to a garden centre, charity shop or whatever I hear her little voice saying "It's tat, mum.  Tat! Move awaaaay from the stall!" 

    If you'd like to borrow her, my rates are very reasonable! 
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  • Me_v_The_Mortgage_Mountain
    Me_v_The_Mortgage_Mountain Posts: 394 Forumite
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    edited 2 December 2024 at 3:38PM
    Hi All

    My name is MvTMM and I too am a stasher!!  :#  I would love to come along for the ride.

    @_Dolly_Rocker_ You could have written my list, I too have a stash of;
    • Fragrance - probably 7 or 8 untouched large bottles of perfume as well as the 4 that are currently in use.
    • Make Up - I don't even wear that much and yet have a huge stash, beauty boxes and advent calendars were to blame, I've stopped them all now.
    • Skincare - QVC was my nemesis, I have enough SBC to start a spa!!
    • Notebooks - stationery in general, this goes back to my childhood and I still love a pen/notebook/highlighter!
    • Clothes - my wardrobe is rammed
    • Bags - probably have abut 10 bags that have never been used and about 20 that are in use.
    • Shoes - we won't even put a figure to this section!!!!  Imelda Marcos would have been proud of my collection!
    I need to not buy anything AT ALL, I have 12 months until my mortgage deal expires and I want to be in as good a position as possible for then.

    MvTMM
    Mortgage (Nov 20- NOV 39)  originally £130,999 (Interest only) NOW £104,774 (approx 78% equity)
    Over payments 2020 £750/£750 (Mortgage payments only start Dec 2020)
    Over payments 2021 £9,000 /£9,000  Over payments 2022 £7,629/£9,000 (£1,371 short of target)
    Over payments 2023 £2,620/£9,000 (£6,380 short of target)
    Over payments 2024 £5,406/£11,000
    Over payments 2025 £814/£5,600  (fix rate exp Dec 2025)
    Loan £13,338
    Total Savings £5376
    Premium Bonds - £838
    YBS Xmas Regular Saver - £450

  • I'm the same with the make up - you would think I wore a full face daily with the amount that I've got. 

    In reality I probably put mascara on about once a month.
    Debt Free - 4th June 2025
  • Still working my way through the stash of everything that is lurking in my cupboards. 

    I've got a few empty bottles that I will add to my UU (used up) list. Will help to keep me motivated. 

    Also can't wait to get some of the space back - I have wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too much STUFF. 

    Debt Free - 4th June 2025
  • Hi All

    Well since my post at the beginning of December I've actually gained more perfume, Christmas and birthday presents!  But I have used some items up, listed some clothes and handbags on Vinted and donated more to charity.  I really need to start keeping a tally as a motivator!  @_Dolly_Rocker_ your UU list sounds like a good idea.  I resisted the January sales and am trying to stay focused, it's hard when there are so many lovely things to buy :lol: 

    MvTMM
    Mortgage (Nov 20- NOV 39)  originally £130,999 (Interest only) NOW £104,774 (approx 78% equity)
    Over payments 2020 £750/£750 (Mortgage payments only start Dec 2020)
    Over payments 2021 £9,000 /£9,000  Over payments 2022 £7,629/£9,000 (£1,371 short of target)
    Over payments 2023 £2,620/£9,000 (£6,380 short of target)
    Over payments 2024 £5,406/£11,000
    Over payments 2025 £814/£5,600  (fix rate exp Dec 2025)
    Loan £13,338
    Total Savings £5376
    Premium Bonds - £838
    YBS Xmas Regular Saver - £450

  • It's so difficult especially all the sales and everything in all those lovely boxes! 

    I'm a sucker for stuff like that. 

    I've also managed to resist the sales. 

    I'll start my UU list - I've kept all the empty bottles in a bag cos I wanted to list them and then forgot - found the bag yesterday so will list it tonight then recycle them. 
    Debt Free - 4th June 2025
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