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No will, intestacy

katie4
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Dad passed earlier this year his sister my aunt applied for administration letter on her own for her mums house )my Nan’s)
We understand under intestacy that it should be 50/50 to both my nans children (my dad and my aunt) it will now form part of his estate. But we’re not on speaking terms. I have called the solicitor she is dealing with who told me I’d need a contestancy solicitor as they just deal with the house sale all funds will go to her as she is administrator so what if she doesn’t want to share the house sale funds as she should?
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It’s a little early to be contacting a solicitor about a dispute when you have no clue how things are going to turn out.If the solicitor she has contracted is purely dealing with the house sale, for example, it would be normal for the proceeds to go to her to then be distributed according to the rules of intestacy and it doesn’t automatically she will try and keep the lot.They can’t give you any information because they are not working for you.
Probate sales can be notoriously slow and it is probably too early to be expecting her to be ready to distribute anything, even if she is planning on doing it correctly.
I don’t speak to my father, but he still did things properly when he was distributing my grandmother’s estate. Do you have any reason to believe that your aunt won’t do the same?All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.0 -
Bit confused. When did your nan die and what has happened with her house in the meantime? Did both your dad and nan die without leaving wills?0
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Who died first, your dad or your nan?
If your dad was still living when his mother died intestate, the proceeds of selling her house and other possessions less any IHT due would be shared equally between him and his sister and if he has died before distribution then his share would indeed become part of his estate.
However if dad died before his mother, his share does not pass to his estate. It passes directly to his children, that is you and your siblings. The difference is important if his estate was insolvent.
As @elsien says you might be jumping the gun, it doesn't sound as though the house sale is completed yet. Perhaps instead of not speaking, this might be a good time to rebuild bridges?0 -
mattojgb said:Bit confused. When did your nan die and what has happened with her house in the meantime? Did both your dad and nan die without leaving wills?
If Nan died and had a will and left the house to your dad then it has nothing whatsoever to do with your aunt. Doesn't matter if Nan said to Aunt "don't worry "Dad" will give you a share" because unless he has a will to state that it doesn't apply. You might be nice and agree that she gets a share but that's up to you.
You may just need to buck yourself up and talk to your aunt. Maybe there's good reasons you feel you can't but it may save you a huge amount of money in the long run.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe and Old Style Money Saving boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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elsien said:It’s a little early to be contacting a solicitor about a dispute when you have no clue how things are going to turn out.If the solicitor she has contracted is purely dealing with the house sale, for example, it would be normal for the proceeds to go to her to then be distributed according to the rules of intestacy and it doesn’t automatically she will try and keep the lot.They can’t give you any information because they are not working for you.
Probate sales can be notoriously slow and it is probably too early to be expecting her to be ready to distribute anything, even if she is planning on doing it correctly.
I don’t speak to my father, but he still did things properly when he was distributing my grandmother’s estate. Do you have any reason to believe that your aunt won’t do the same?
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mattojgb said:Bit confused. When did your nan die and what has happened with her house in the meantime? Did both your dad and nan die without leaving wills?0
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Alderbank said:Who died first, your dad or your nan?
If your dad was still living when his mother died intestate, the proceeds of selling her house and other possessions less any IHT due would be shared equally between him and his sister and if he has died before distribution then his share would indeed become part of his estate.
However if dad died before his mother, his share does not pass to his estate. It passes directly to his children, that is you and your siblings. The difference is important if his estate was insolvent.
As @elsien says you might be jumping the gun, it doesn't sound as though the house sale is completed yet. Perhaps instead of not speaking, this might be a good time to rebuild bridges?0 -
Brie said:mattojgb said:Bit confused. When did your nan die and what has happened with her house in the meantime? Did both your dad and nan die without leaving wills?
If Nan died and had a will and left the house to your dad then it has nothing whatsoever to do with your aunt. Doesn't matter if Nan said to Aunt "don't worry "Dad" will give you a share" because unless he has a will to state that it doesn't apply. You might be nice and agree that she gets a share but that's up to you.
You may just need to buck yourself up and talk to your aunt. Maybe there's good reasons you feel you can't but it may save you a huge amount of money in the long run.0 -
House isn’t worth much £80k maybe be care home fees, council tax to come out of it but this isn’t about the money my father was adament before he passed that his share be passed down to me0
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Can I suggest you write to your aunt just to make contact, maybe ask if there is anything you can do to help and ask if she has any view on when she may be in a position to distribute the funds.
Appreciate it may be difficult but from experience of contentious probate in relation to my mother's will a chunk of any money from your nan's estate could easily be largely swallowed up in legal fees if you go in all legal.0
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