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Joint Bank Account, can I get any money back?

Sn00py
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Hello, In 2011 I had a joint bank account with my aunt. I was responsible for growing the savings account and she/we had around £150,000 in the account but then in 2014 my aunt was diagnosed with dementia. As Power of Attorney I continued to look after the account. In 2019 she had to go into a care home paying around £1,200 a week out of our joint bank account.
Recently a friend told me that 50% of what was in the joint account was legally mine but over the last nearly 5 years the money has gone down to around £15,000. I genuinely thought that because of her diagnosis I could not touch the money. Now social services have stepped in to pay for the care home and they will back date the payment to 1 March this year when we last had around £23,350 in the account. The care home have agreed to refund the extra that was paid, around £11,000; this will take the account over the £23,350 limit but will this mean she has to start contributing to her own care again?
My other question is, was my friend right and would I have been within my rights to take half the money back then, and can I still do this now with what's left? My second question is, can I claim my half of the money back from social services? Probably not, but this is going to haunt me until I get to the bottom of it. Of course I would never see my aunt go short of anything and if the law states there is nothing I can do, so be it. Please can anyone help shed any light on this please as it is now keeping me awake at night.
Recently a friend told me that 50% of what was in the joint account was legally mine but over the last nearly 5 years the money has gone down to around £15,000. I genuinely thought that because of her diagnosis I could not touch the money. Now social services have stepped in to pay for the care home and they will back date the payment to 1 March this year when we last had around £23,350 in the account. The care home have agreed to refund the extra that was paid, around £11,000; this will take the account over the £23,350 limit but will this mean she has to start contributing to her own care again?
My other question is, was my friend right and would I have been within my rights to take half the money back then, and can I still do this now with what's left? My second question is, can I claim my half of the money back from social services? Probably not, but this is going to haunt me until I get to the bottom of it. Of course I would never see my aunt go short of anything and if the law states there is nothing I can do, so be it. Please can anyone help shed any light on this please as it is now keeping me awake at night.
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How you go about things I don't know. Half the money in a joint account is deemed to belong to each person unless a good reason otherwise. When her money got lower only ½ of it should have been noted in any financial assesment.Lost my soulmate so life is empty.
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If you never put any of your own money in the account then what you did was correct it is still her money. Sometimes people set up accounts like this for convenience purposes only and this sounds like one of those cases.
For some reason you have posted this in the mobiles forum, so I have reported it and hopefully a mod will move it to a more appropriate one.4 -
Your friend is only half right. Whose money was paid into the account ?
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I can only say from personal experience, or in fact that of my OH & his mom. They were joint on an account that her money had been going in to. So hers. Not his. Bu the LA deemed that it was 50/50 and so only took half into account for determining what she needed to pay.
Now this is different from you thinking you are entitled to a portion due to you working on your aunt's behalf. That's great but not the point. You can take (if you like) half of your aunt's money rather than it paying for her care. do you think that she's not entitled to what she has earned?I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe and Old Style Money Saving boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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What Keep_Pedalling said.It depends on what you’ve paid into the account yourself, but if it’s always been your aunt’s money then it remains your aunt’s money.All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.0 -
Sn00py said:Hello, In 2011 I had a joint bank account with my aunt. I was responsible for growing the savings account and she/we had around £150,000 in the account but then in 2014 my aunt was diagnosed with dementia. As Power of Attorney I continued to look after the account. In 2019 she had to go into a care home paying around £1,200 a week out of our joint bank account.
Recently a friend told me that 50% of what was in the joint account was legally mine but over the last nearly 5 years the money has gone down to around £15,000. I genuinely thought that because of her diagnosis I could not touch the money. Now social services have stepped in to pay for the care home and they will back date the payment to 1 March this year when we last had around £23,350 in the account. The care home have agreed to refund the extra that was paid, around £11,000; this will take the account over the £23,350 limit but will this mean she has to start contributing to her own care again?
My other question is, was my friend right and would I have been within my rights to take half the money back then, and can I still do this now with what's left? My second question is, can I claim my half of the money back from social services? Probably not, but this is going to haunt me until I get to the bottom of it. Of course I would never see my aunt go short of anything and if the law states there is nothing I can do, so be it. Please can anyone help shed any light on this please as it is now keeping me awake at night.0 -
You should have taken all your contributions out when your aunt became ill and then run the account under the PoA as if it belonged to her alone as it then only contained her money.
I cannot see you will be entitled to anything apart from half the current balance, obviously with proof of your original deposit.
You have no claim with social services.1 -
You’d be better posting this in the Banking forum rather than mobile phones.0
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PHK said:You’d be better posting this in the Banking forum rather than mobile phones.1
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Sn00py said:Sn00py said:Hello, In 2011 I had a joint bank account with my aunt. I was responsible for growing the savings account and she/we had around £150,000 in the account but then in 2014 my aunt was diagnosed with dementia. As Power of Attorney I continued to look after the account. In 2019 she had to go into a care home paying around £1,200 a week out of our joint bank account.
Recently a friend told me that 50% of what was in the joint account was legally mine but over the last nearly 5 years the money has gone down to around £15,000. I genuinely thought that because of her diagnosis I could not touch the money. Now social services have stepped in to pay for the care home and they will back date the payment to 1 March this year when we last had around £23,350 in the account. The care home have agreed to refund the extra that was paid, around £11,000; this will take the account over the £23,350 limit but will this mean she has to start contributing to her own care again?
My other question is, was my friend right and would I have been within my rights to take half the money back then, and can I still do this now with what's left? My second question is, can I claim my half of the money back from social services? Probably not, but this is going to haunt me until I get to the bottom of it. Of course I would never see my aunt go short of anything and if the law states there is nothing I can do, so be it. Please can anyone help shed any light on this please as it is now keeping me awake at night.0
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