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wyattjnr
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Hello everyone, I am hoping I can get some advice here as I am completely lost in the whole process of probate.
So my mother passed in June 2024, I am the 50/50 beneficiary to my mums estate alongside my sister. My mother had been in a care home in Ireland (all assets in UK) since 2020 and had no property (all cash and investments). We have started probate through her solicitor and as a start have instructed them to do a bank search for my mum, although we think we have all her accounts, but just want to check. We have also asked for one to be done on my grandma as her probate has still not been completed from 2021 and that money is due to my mother and therefore now my sister and me.
In total my mothers assets are in excess of £800k and are all cash, no property. She was divorced from my father in 2019 and so there is no allowance passing over to him. Its the standard £325k. Therefore we are in line for a very very substantial IHT bill at the end of December. Whilst I don't agree with IHT, I do realise we legally have to pay it, but I would like to minimise this amount as much as possible. Could people explain the options to us of reducing the IHT (not even sure its possible, but as I say I am completely lost in this). My mother has mad gifts to both my sister and I previously for deposits for houses and flats but they were so long ago, there are no records of the transactions. Would these count?
Also, the quote from the solicitor to undertake the probate is in excess of £7k, is this fair? Could people let me know if DIY probate is straightforward or not?
Thanks in advance.
So my mother passed in June 2024, I am the 50/50 beneficiary to my mums estate alongside my sister. My mother had been in a care home in Ireland (all assets in UK) since 2020 and had no property (all cash and investments). We have started probate through her solicitor and as a start have instructed them to do a bank search for my mum, although we think we have all her accounts, but just want to check. We have also asked for one to be done on my grandma as her probate has still not been completed from 2021 and that money is due to my mother and therefore now my sister and me.
In total my mothers assets are in excess of £800k and are all cash, no property. She was divorced from my father in 2019 and so there is no allowance passing over to him. Its the standard £325k. Therefore we are in line for a very very substantial IHT bill at the end of December. Whilst I don't agree with IHT, I do realise we legally have to pay it, but I would like to minimise this amount as much as possible. Could people explain the options to us of reducing the IHT (not even sure its possible, but as I say I am completely lost in this). My mother has mad gifts to both my sister and I previously for deposits for houses and flats but they were so long ago, there are no records of the transactions. Would these count?
Also, the quote from the solicitor to undertake the probate is in excess of £7k, is this fair? Could people let me know if DIY probate is straightforward or not?
Thanks in advance.
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wyattjnr said:Could people let me know if DIY probate is straightforward or not?
If the lifetime gifts to you and your sister were over seven years ago then they'll fall outside your mothers estate.0 -
p00hsticks said:wyattjnr said:Could people let me know if DIY probate is straightforward or not?
If the lifetime gifts to you and your sister were over seven years ago then they'll fall outside your mothers estate.
So it sounds to me there isn't any way of reducing the IHT in this case.0 -
Did mum ever own property this side of the water?If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0
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Ok, think you need advice on this, as it's just possible you could claim the Residential Nil Rate. Someone who was a home owner who sold to downsize or go into care would get up to £175k allowance, depending on the value of the property sold. There may be other circumstances when they could claim this.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing2
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Sorry answer questions with more questions but was she a resident of the RoI or NI? If the former then her estate falls under the laws of the RoI which complicates things somewhat.
You say gifts were long ago so no records, but if there were in the last 7 years then they do form part of her estate and not declaring them would be a serious offence and could result in serious penalties including jail time.0 -
RAS said:Ok, think you need advice on this, as it's just possible you could claim the Residential Nil Rate. Someone who was a home owner who sold to downsize or go into care would get up to £175k allowance, depending on the value of the property sold. There may be other circumstances when they could claim this.0
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Keep_pedalling said:Sorry answer questions with more questions but was she a resident of the RoI or NI? If the former then her estate falls under the laws of the RoI which complicates things somewhat.
You say gifts were long ago so no records, but if there were in the last 7 years then they do form part of her estate and not declaring them would be a serious offence and could result in serious penalties including jail time.
No the gifts were all years ago.0 -
wyattjnr said:RAS said:Ok, think you need advice on this, as it's just possible you could claim the Residential Nil Rate. Someone who was a home owner who sold to downsize or go into care would get up to £175k allowance, depending on the value of the property sold. There may be other circumstances when they could claim this.
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wyattjnr said:Keep_pedalling said:Sorry answer questions with more questions but was she a resident of the RoI or NI? If the former then her estate falls under the laws of the RoI which complicates things somewhat.
You say gifts were long ago so no records, but if there were in the last 7 years then they do form part of her estate and not declaring them would be a serious offence and could result in serious penalties including jail time.
No the gifts were all years ago.
If, as you say, she gave the money for house deposits for you then it should be easy enough to track back - when did you and your sister buy the properties on question ?0
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