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Small Claim Against Someone With Mental Health Difficulties



I complained about some painting work that was done to a completely unacceptable standard. I met with the painter and he offered me a £2000 refund on the £3100 I originally paid. Since I accepted this partial refund he has not replied to any messages, and has not refunded me any money. I sent him a letter before action today, and he has now messaged to say that he has had a nervous breakdown and his business has stopped trading. He says he has no money, is waiting on a benefits claim, and has asked for a payment plan (with no further details of how much that might be).
I am having difficulty believing him, as when we discussed the poor quality of the work he offered so many excuses about his family circumstances that I found them implausible. But to be on the safe side, I think I have to assume that he is telling the truth.
How should I proceed? £2000 is a lot of money for me, and I need it back in order to fix the dreadful job he did. If I go forward with a court claim then I understand the court has the power to assess his financial means, and to set a fair and affordable payment plan if he truly cannot pay all in one go. But I am less sure about how I can informally set up or administer a payment plan on my own. I worry that I might create an endless admin nightmare for myself.
What should I do? I don't want to send him a horrible response that could make his situation worse, but I don't see how either of us can deal with this situation without some kind of formal process in place.
Any ideas would be gratefully received.
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Criptine said:Hello,
I complained about some painting work that was done to a completely unacceptable standard. I met with the painter and he offered me a £2000 refund on the £3100 I originally paid. Since I accepted this partial refund he has not replied to any messages, and has not refunded me any money. I sent him a letter before action today, and he has now messaged to say that he has had a nervous breakdown and his business has stopped trading. He says he has no money, is waiting on a benefits claim, and has asked for a payment plan (with no further details of how much that might be).
I am having difficulty believing him, as when we discussed the poor quality of the work he offered so many excuses about his family circumstances that I found them implausible. But to be on the safe side, I think I have to assume that he is telling the truth.
How should I proceed? £2000 is a lot of money for me, and I need it back in order to fix the dreadful job he did. If I go forward with a court claim then I understand the court has the power to assess his financial means, and to set a fair and affordable payment plan if he truly cannot pay all in one go. But I am less sure about how I can informally set up or administer a payment plan on my own. I worry that I might create an endless admin nightmare for myself.
What should I do? I don't want to send him a horrible response that could make his situation worse, but I don't see how either of us can deal with this situation without some kind of formal process in place.
Any ideas would be gratefully received.1 -
eskbanker said:Criptine said:he has now messaged to say that he has had a nervous breakdown and his business has stopped trading
How did you pay?
I paid by bank transfer. It was stupid, but I live miles away from my father's house that was being painted, and I couldn't get there to check the work in a timely manner, so I trusted him and paid.0 -
My gut feeling is that you won't be getting your money. If he's stopped working and is broke going to court isn't going to get you anything. The fact that he had a nervous breakdown is completely irrelevant given that he doesn't have the ££ to pay you anything.I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Debt Free Wannabe and Old Style Money Saving boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
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Criptine said:eskbanker said:Criptine said:he has now messaged to say that he has had a nervous breakdown and his business has stopped trading
How did you pay?
I paid by bank transfer. It was stupid, but I live miles away from my father's house that was being painted, and I couldn't get there to check the work in a timely manner, so I trusted him and paid.1 -
Brie said:My gut feeling is that you won't be getting your money. If he's stopped working and is broke going to court isn't going to get you anything. The fact that he had a nervous breakdown is completely irrelevant given that he doesn't have the ££ to pay you anything.
I am considering the following response. What do people think?I am very sorry to hear about your situation. I hope that you are getting all the support you need, and can recommend you speak to the charity Mind if you need any help with benefits or other financial matters:
I hope you appreciate that £2,000 is a great deal of money for me, and so I am unable to write off a sum of that size. I am sympathetic to your situation, and would be happy to discuss a payment plan, but without the court process to help us I do not know how we would best work out a fair and affordable schedule of payments. What do you think?
I don’t know whether you have any other debts, or have considered speaking to an organisation such as StepChange (linked from the Mind website above), who can help you get some breathing space while you are at the start of your recovery, and then put in place a plan to deal with financial problems on your behalf. They do excellent work, are free and confidential, and I would not hesitate to ask for their help if I was struggling.
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eskbanker said:Criptine said:eskbanker said:Criptine said:he has now messaged to say that he has had a nervous breakdown and his business has stopped trading
How did you pay?
I paid by bank transfer. It was stupid, but I live miles away from my father's house that was being painted, and I couldn't get there to check the work in a timely manner, so I trusted him and paid.0 -
The vast majority of claims are decided on a default basis as the defendant doesn't respond (in time) and the majority of claims are never settled. Whilst £2,000 is a lot to you the issuing fee will be £115 and the hearing will be £181 so you may just end up being owed £2,296 if the person has no means.
It's always worth doing as much research to validate the potential of the defendant to pay before issuing and adding to your losses.1 -
Criptine said:eskbanker said:Criptine said:eskbanker said:Criptine said:he has now messaged to say that he has had a nervous breakdown and his business has stopped trading
How did you pay?
I paid by bank transfer. It was stupid, but I live miles away from my father's house that was being painted, and I couldn't get there to check the work in a timely manner, so I trusted him and paid.
If you do go down the court route then you should totally ignore the mental health aspects. Without wishing to sound harsh they are not, legally, your problem. Obviously only you can decide.3 -
Undervalued said:If you do go down the court route then you should totally ignore the mental health aspects. Without wishing to sound harsh they are not, legally, your problem. Obviously only you can decide.2
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