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Can’t agree on completion date

This is the first time I’ve sold a house so I’m learning along the way. I’ll be moving into a rented house and the estate agent recommended I have 4 weeks between exchange and completion to find somewhere and for it to go through. My buyers are saying they want to move in in 3 weeks and aren’t waiting 4 weeks. We haven’t exchanged contracts yet and I’ve said I’m willing to exchange ASAP then will need 4 weeks from that date so I’m not at risk of losing my deposit/first months rent if it all falls through. Am I being unreasonable? This whole thing is really stressing me out.
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  • eddddy
    eddddy Posts: 17,376 Forumite
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    It's just negotiation. You want 4 weeks and your buyers want to move in 3 weeks. So the options are:
    • You give in
    • Your buyers give in
    • You compromise (3.5 weeks?)
    • You walk away (or your buyers walk away)

  • angel3130
    angel3130 Posts: 22 Forumite
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    I don’t know if I’m doing it the right way around saying I want to sign the contracts first before agreeing a date x
  • propertyrental
    propertyrental Posts: 3,391 Forumite
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    angel3130 said:
    ....... We haven’t exchanged contracts yet and I’ve said I’m willing to exchange ASAP then will need 4 weeks from that date so I’m not at risk of losing my deposit/first months rent if it all falls through. Am I being unreasonable? This whole thing is really stressing me out.

    Not sure what you mean, Have you found a rental to move to? Have you paid a (holding) deposit/1st months rent? If so the quicker you Exchange the better, but why might 'it all fall through'? Do you mean your sale? Once you Exchange it is not going to fall through (well, 999 times out of 1000).
  • DE_612183
    DE_612183 Posts: 2,943 Forumite
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    when you sign the contracts their should be a date - or you sign and the solicitor holds the contract and then exchanges when you both agree a date.


  • angel3130
    angel3130 Posts: 22 Forumite
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    No I’ve not put a holding deposit down because I’m worried the sale on my house could potentially fall through. Maybe I’m being too cautious wanting to exchange contracts first and then agree a completion date 
  • kingstreet
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    You can sign your contract any time. It won't become binding until your solicitor exchanges contracts with the other side and to do that a completion date has to be agreed, unless there's a newbuild in the chain then it's usually "on notice" ten days later.
    I am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.
  • DE_612183
    DE_612183 Posts: 2,943 Forumite
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    you can't exchange contracts without setting a date - there would be no point.

    you can sign - but then the contact hasn't been exchanged so it's worthless anyway.

    Agree a date - then move forward.

    Is there a reason why the buyers want three weeks? Perhaps they are in rented and have to move out....
  • mebu60
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    angel3130 said:
    No I’ve not put a holding deposit down because I’m worried the sale on my house could potentially fall through. Maybe I’m being too cautious wanting to exchange contracts first and then agree a completion date 
    You agree the completion date for your sale when you exchange contracts..
  • angel3130
    angel3130 Posts: 22 Forumite
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    They’re not in rented, they’ve sold their house and just want to move ASAP
  • DE_612183
    DE_612183 Posts: 2,943 Forumite
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    angel3130 said:
    They’re not in rented, they’ve sold their house and just want to move ASAP
    so are they being pushed by their buyers?

    If there is no over-riding factor I'd stick to 4 weeks - unlikely they will back down and pull out unless they are looking to do that anyway.
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