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My Neighbour is a raging Alcoholic...she admits it!!

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Mustbeananswer??
Mustbeananswer?? Posts: 548 Forumite
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But underneath all that she has a good heart.

She has had her door kicked in by the Police searching for her Ex Boyfriend.She is facing eviction because of the door.She has no boiler.She is only Mid 30s.Her place is in disarray.Should I and how can I help her.....because she is never in a fit state to do anything.She has the biggest Self Destuct Button I have ever seen ???     Always getting arrested too.  
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  • elsien
    elsien Posts: 36,057 Forumite
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    edited 19 June 2024 at 10:53AM
    Not quite seeing the connection with her door being kicked in because of someone looking for an ex-boyfriend (ex being the relevant word here ) with her alleged use of alcohol? 

    If she has no boiler, then surely that is down to the landlord to sort out?
    Has she taken advice about whether the eviction is legal or not?

    Does she want any help? 
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • Thanks for that Comprehensive reply Jude 57 ...I heed your words !! 
  • bunnygo
    bunnygo Posts: 160 Forumite
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    Sadly - stay out of this. She's also very vulnerable to cuckooing (surprised it hasn't happened already) which will mean you'll be next door to a drug den. The eviction will mean the council take her somewhere else, hopefully with some actual help.
  • Yep ......bunnygo.....Its not my concern I guess ...plus its a hopeless case.  
  • T.T.D
    T.T.D Posts: 260 Forumite
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    edited 27 June 2024 at 7:30PM
    Do nothing. 

    That’s the best help you could ever offer someone that’s in this shape  
  • T.T.D said:
    Do nothing. 

    That’s the best help you could ever offer someone that’s in this shape  
    It looks like she is staying with her Sister...I suspect she will be back at benefit payment date.


  • freesha
    freesha Posts: 430 Forumite
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    You don't help her, she can only help herself.
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