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Renting a room to a single mother with 6yo daughter
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Bookworm105 said:unless you have a very special size bedroom with 2 beds in it I'd be amazed at the idea of a 6 year old sleeping in the same room as their mother.
the annual gas safe check is not a should, it is a legal must0 -
Bookworm105 said:
the annual gas safe check is not a should, it is a legal must
Is that definitely required, even though the OP is only considering a lodger? This is not a tenancy.
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As said before, never mention tenants or tenancies. In your agreement do mention your rules about the following:locks/ visitors(e.g. work customers etc.)/ guests/ partners/ rooms usable/noise/ smoking/ cleaning/ food prep/ pets/ bills/ keys/ TV use/ laundry (2x week max)/ notice to quit etc.There is no honour to be had in not knowing a thing that can be known - Danny Baker0
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Brie said:Just as a precaution I would make sure that there is nothing around that a mother might consider offensive for a young girl to see. So any books like Ulysses or Fifty Shades on the top shelf and no channels on the TV that are adult rated. Keep your pc/laptop locked simply for privacy from either of them.
Our neighbours used to regularly have young students staying with them and no DBS checks were done. Generally they were 10-14 year old boys which was the same age as their sons so maybe that's why it wasn't required.
If you are a bloke I don't think I'd recommend having a young girl staying with you in case there are any misconstrued situations. But even if you are a woman I'd suggest you agree up front that at no point do you agree to be in the house alone with the girl, so no babysitting or looking after her while mom nips to the shops.
It is quite normal to entrust your kids to other adults ( sleepovers, parties, tea after school etc ) and for adults to keep an eye on other people's children.0 -
Grumpy_chap said:Bookworm105 said:
the annual gas safe check is not a should, it is a legal must
Is that definitely required, even though the OP is only considering a lodger? This is not a tenancy.2 -
gow007 said:
I am mostly on the roads, travelling for work purposes and will be barely home, perhaps a few days in a month.If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales1 -
Bigphil1474 said:A HMO is at least 5 rooms from memory so not an issue.
Any language construct that forces such insanity in this case should be abandoned without regrets. –
Erik Aronesty, 2014
Treasure the moments that you have. Savour them for as long as you can for they will never come back again.1 -
Is your friend going to be a guarantor? If mum misses payment, how would you handle having to ask them to leave, with say a weeks notice?0
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Under overcrowding laws 6 year old counts as 1/2 a person so -see link - room needs to be at least 8.36 sq metres
https://england.shelter.org.uk/professional_resources/legal/housing_conditions/overcrowding#title-1
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Would not touch with a bargepole.
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