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Legal advice on deeds when paying part cash

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I’m currently buying a house with my partner he is getting a mortgage and I’m paying a bit more than half in cash.
do I need to be on his mortgage to be on the title deeds ? And his mortgage advisor is saying I have to gift my partner my cash is this normal practice? 
I don’t really want to be on the mortgage! 
Any advice welcome 

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  • RAS
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    You need to stop until you fully understand exactly what you are getting into. Book yourself a session with a good lawyer who is experienced dealing with unmarried partners and property.

    There are two basic options.

    You gift your partner the cash and accept that you cannot be the deeds and have no right to reclaim that money.

    Or you pay the deposit for the mortgage and go on the deeds. You'd need a deed of trust to specify exactly what happens if you and your partner break up. You could still end up homeless, with the money tied up on the house and legally liable for the mortgage, but could at least take legal action to resolve the situation. 


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  • Bookworm105
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    edited 29 April 2024 at 9:32AM
    lenders do not "like" occupants who are not party to the mortgage as it makes it more complex for them if they need to repossess. They may, or may not, thus refuse the mortgage leaving your partner needing to find a different lender.
  • loubel
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    It is unlikely that any lender will accept you having a financial interest in the property unless you are party to the mortgage. As RAS says, you will need a Declaration of Trust to set out the terms of your joint ownership - partner paying all the mortgage etc but you will remain liable to the lender regardless of this. Make sure you understand what you are signing by taking independent advice to your partner.
  • user1977
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    Why don't you want to be on the mortgage? If the lender repossesses then you'll be kicked out anyway...
  • propertyrental
    propertyrental Posts: 3,391 Forumite
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    Is it just the mortgage you don't want to be on?
    Or also the Title deeds (property ownership)?
    Do you understand the difference?
    What is your concern or reticence?
    How stable is your relationship? Joint property ownership is in many ways more of a commitment than marriage?
  • I’m currently buying a house with my partner he is getting a mortgage and I’m paying a bit more than half in cash.
    do I need to be on his mortgage to be on the title deeds ? And his mortgage advisor is saying I have to gift my partner my cash is this normal practice? 
    I don’t really want to be on the mortgage! 
    Any advice welcome 
    Your partner can’t get a mortgage to buy part of a house. The mortgage has to be secured against the whole title. There is no way for your partner to get a mortgage to fund the purchase without you being party to it. A joint owner, sole borrower mortgage is a thing but not very common. 

    The mortgage broker’s advice is crap. If you gift your partner the money the lender will require you to sign a document declaring that the money is truly a non-strings-attached gift. You’ll have no rights to the property or the money if your relationship goes up in flames. 
  • GDB2222
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    You need your own solicitor.
    No reliance should be placed on the above! Absolutely none, do you hear?
  • kingstreet
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    I’m currently buying a house with my partner he is getting a mortgage and I’m paying a bit more than half in cash.
    do I need to be on his mortgage to be on the title deeds ? And his mortgage advisor is saying I have to gift my partner my cash is this normal practice? 
    I don’t really want to be on the mortgage! 
    Any advice welcome 
    Your partner can’t get a mortgage to buy part of a house. The mortgage has to be secured against the whole title. There is no way for your partner to get a mortgage to fund the purchase without you being party to it. A joint owner, sole borrower mortgage is a thing but not very common. 

    The mortgage broker’s advice is crap. If you gift your partner the money the lender will require you to sign a document declaring that the money is truly a non-strings-attached gift. You’ll have no rights to the property or the money if your relationship goes up in flames. 
    ... and most lenders won't accept a gift towards a deposit where the donor will reside in the property and not be party to the mortgage/ownership.
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