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Solicitor asking about transfer of Inheritance
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Ccn2623
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My son and his partner are purchasing a property, he mentioned to the solicitor acting on his behalf that I gave him a 5k gift from money my mother had given me from the sale of her house (and downsized).
I received a letter from the solicitor asking to confirm where my son had gotten the money from which I replied it was an early inheritance from my mother which I then gifted some to him.
I received a letter from the solicitor asking to confirm where my son had gotten the money from which I replied it was an early inheritance from my mother which I then gifted some to him.
I don’t know any rules, my mother gave me some money and I gave some money to my son and not just towards the purchase or the house.
Now the solicitor is asking for all questions and wants bank statements, letters from solicitors who sold my mother’s house etc.
My mother 84, is not willing to divulge her personal status.
I am worried now.
any advice would be appreciated
thank you
chris
My mother 84, is not willing to divulge her personal status.
I am worried now.
any advice would be appreciated
thank you
chris
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The solicitor is rightly asking for evidence of where the funds come from as part of Anti money laundering regulations.
You either comply with the request or the gifted amount won't be accepted.1 -
As above , comply or it's not allowableEx forum ambassador
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No such thing as an early inheritance it was a gift from your mother to you and then you made a gift to your son. Depending on how long ago your mother made the gift her involvement may not be required. When did she gift to you and where has that money been residing since then?3
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BoGoF said:The solicitor is rightly asking for evidence of where the funds come from as part of Anti money laundering regulations.
You either comply with the request or the gifted amount won't be accepted.
what does it mean when you say not allowable?
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Ccn2623 said:BoGoF said:The solicitor is rightly asking for evidence of where the funds come from as part of Anti money laundering regulations.
You either comply with the request or the gifted amount won't be accepted.
what does it mean when you say not allowable?
Suggest to your son that he goes back to the solicitor (if necessary speaking to a more senior individual within the firm) and explains that his 84 year old grandmother is of a generation which doesn't disclose personal financial affairs, but his mother is perfectly happy to provide the documentation relating to her gift to him.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
Keep_pedalling said:No such thing as an early inheritance it was a gift from your mother to you and then you made a gift to your son. Depending on how long ago your mother made the gift her involvement may not be required. When did she gift to you and where has that money been residing since then?
On this point, is there a standard timescale as to when a gift becomes "yours" and doesn't require a further backdated audit trail?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
Marcon said:Ccn2623 said:BoGoF said:The solicitor is rightly asking for evidence of where the funds come from as part of Anti money laundering regulations.
You either comply with the request or the gifted amount won't be accepted.
what does it mean when you say not allowable?
Suggest to your son that he goes back to the solicitor (if necessary speaking to a more senior individual within the firm) and explains that his 84 year old grandmother is of a generation which doesn't disclose personal financial affairs, but his mother is perfectly happy to provide the documentation relating to her gift to him.0 -
Sea_Shell said:Keep_pedalling said:No such thing as an early inheritance it was a gift from your mother to you and then you made a gift to your son. Depending on how long ago your mother made the gift her involvement may not be required. When did she gift to you and where has that money been residing since then?
On this point, is there a standard timescale as to when a gift becomes "yours" and doesn't require a further backdated audit trail?1 -
msb1234 said:Sea_Shell said:Keep_pedalling said:No such thing as an early inheritance it was a gift from your mother to you and then you made a gift to your son. Depending on how long ago your mother made the gift her involvement may not be required. When did she gift to you and where has that money been residing since then?
On this point, is there a standard timescale as to when a gift becomes "yours" and doesn't require a further backdated audit trail?
So, if your daughter had had this money in HER account for 12 months, would she not have had to provide YOUR details ?How's it going, AKA, Nutwatch? - 12 month spends to date = 2.60% of current retirement "pot" (as at end May 2025)0 -
msb1234 said:Marcon said:Ccn2623 said:BoGoF said:The solicitor is rightly asking for evidence of where the funds come from as part of Anti money laundering regulations.
You either comply with the request or the gifted amount won't be accepted.
what does it mean when you say not allowable?
Suggest to your son that he goes back to the solicitor (if necessary speaking to a more senior individual within the firm) and explains that his 84 year old grandmother is of a generation which doesn't disclose personal financial affairs, but his mother is perfectly happy to provide the documentation relating to her gift to him.Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0
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