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Buying parents house.
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You would not need to have the deposit in cash in order to buy the house from your mothers estate. You would be buying a 150k house for 100k or whatever size mortgage you choose. If you wish t have the cash to improve or modernise the house once it is yours take on a larger mortgage, I resume that since you live with your mother you are not paying an equal share of all bills as you migh have done with a partner.2
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Baffled what you mean by that. This is the best opportunity for me to buy a house and you are telling me to leave my elderly mother in her own and pay expensive rent when all I pay for now is bills, you need to stick to what I asked in my questionuser1977 said:If you want to be on a level footing with your siblings, why don't you also get your own residence now?My Signature is MY OWN!!0 -
I understand what you are saying, as it stands I would have to use up all my savings for the 10% deposit so I'll have no cash other than what I earn and there ebate some minor things that I'd like to do. I also need to save for my retirement which is what my saving were for and given that I'm age 45 and had a hip replacement and have other joint problems I have a lot in this equation to consider, I don't have kids, or drive so just me.BoGoF said:Sounds like you want to buy the house and still have your £50k 'share' as cash. Only way that is going to happen is if you sell it to a 3rd party. You somehow think you are at some disadvantage that your siblings have £50k cash and you would have a property worth £150k with a £100k mortgage.My Signature is MY OWN!!0 -
slenderkitten said:If the house is worth £150k what would happen with my £50k how do I get that out of the house?
Maybe look at it like this...- You and your siblings will be due £50k each (because the house is worth £150k)
- You can do whatever you like with your £50k
If you decide you want to buy your mothers house, the options might include...- You could use your £50k as a deposit, and take out a loan (mortgage) for £100k from the bank to pay the rest of the price.
- Or you could use £30k (of your £50k) as a deposit , and take out a loan (mortgage) for £120k from the bank to pay the rest of the price. Then you'd still have £20k in cash as well.
In order to borrow money from the bank for a mortgage, they'll want to check your income etc, to see if they think you can afford the repayments.
They might agree to lend you £120k, or they might only agree to lend you £100k - or they might even refuse to lend you any money at all. If no bank will lend you enough money, you probably won't be able to buy the house.
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Yes I do pay equal share of bills and all of the food but that's all, so it's enabling me to save for a deposit which I already have. It's just getting my share of the money that is the question. And obviously that's if can get a mortgage of coursegwynlas said:You would not need to have the deposit in cash in order to buy the house from your mothers estate. You would be buying a 150k house for 100k or whatever size mortgage you choose. If you wish t have the cash to improve or modernise the house once it is yours take on a larger mortgage, I resume that since you live with your mother you are not paying an equal share of all bills as you migh have done with a partner.My Signature is MY OWN!!0 -
Have you been paying rent to your mother during the time you have lived there?0
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We've answered your questions, but I'm baffled as to why you seem unhappy with the answers.slenderkitten said:
Baffled what you mean by that. This is the best opportunity for me to buy a house and you are telling me to leave my elderly mother in her own and pay expensive rent when all I pay for now is bills, you need to stick to what I asked in my questionuser1977 said:If you want to be on a level footing with your siblings, why don't you also get your own residence now?
Where are you getting this "10% deposit" bit from? You'll be starting with 33% equity, you don't need to put more cash in.6 -
No you wouldn’t. You’d use the £50k of equity you’d inherited as the deposit.slenderkitten said:
I understand what you are saying, as it stands I would have to use up all my savings for the 10% deposit so I'll have no cash other than what I earn and there ebate some minor things that I'd like to do. I also need to save for my retirement which is what my saving were for and given that I'm age 45 and had a hip replacement and have other joint problems I have a lot in this equation to consider, I don't have kids, or drive so just me.BoGoF said:Sounds like you want to buy the house and still have your £50k 'share' as cash. Only way that is going to happen is if you sell it to a 3rd party. You somehow think you are at some disadvantage that your siblings have £50k cash and you would have a property worth £150k with a £100k mortgage.2 -
Nope already said what I pay, I don't need to pay her rent she is rich enough lol she isn't a demanding person and she doesn't go anywhere. So it's enabled me to save money.noitsnotme said:Have you been paying rent to your mother during the time you have lived there?My Signature is MY OWN!!0 -
There you go then, you’ve had years worth of free housing while your siblings have been paying rent or mortgages. It’s all fair in the end 🤷♂️slenderkitten said:
Nope already said what I pay, I don't need to pay her rent she is rich enough lol she isn't a demanding person and she doesn't go anywhere. So it's enabled me to save money.noitsnotme said:Have you been paying rent to your mother during the time you have lived there?9
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