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Buying parents house.

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  • gwynlas
    gwynlas Posts: 2,275 Forumite
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    You would not need to have the deposit in cash in order to buy the house from your mothers estate. You would be buying a 150k house for 100k or whatever size mortgage you choose. If you wish t have the cash to improve or modernise the house once it is yours take on a larger mortgage, I resume that since you live with your mother you are not paying an equal share of all bills as you migh have done with a partner.
  • slenderkitten
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    user1977 said:
    If you want to be on a level footing with your siblings, why don't you also get your own residence now?
    Baffled what you mean by that. This is the best opportunity for me to buy a house and you are telling me to leave my elderly mother in her own and pay expensive rent when all I pay for now is bills, you need to stick to what I asked in my question 
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  • slenderkitten
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    edited 10 March 2024 at 12:38PM
    BoGoF said:
    Sounds like you want to buy the house and still have your £50k 'share' as cash. Only way that is going to happen is if you sell it to a 3rd party. You somehow think you are at some disadvantage that your siblings have £50k cash and you would have a property worth £150k with a £100k mortgage.
    I understand what you are saying, as it stands I would have to use up all my savings for the 10% deposit so I'll have no cash other than what I earn and there ebate some minor things that I'd like to do.  I also need to save for my retirement which is what my saving were for and given that I'm age 45 and had a hip replacement and have other joint problems I have a lot in this equation to consider, I don't have kids, or drive so just me. 
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  • eddddy
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    If the house is worth £150k what would happen with my £50k how do I get that out of the house? 

    Maybe look at it like this...
    • You and your siblings will be due £50k each (because the house is worth £150k)
    • You can do whatever you like with your £50k

    If you decide you want to buy your mothers house, the options might include...
    • You could use your £50k as a deposit, and take out a loan (mortgage) for £100k from the bank to pay the rest of the price.
    • Or you could use £30k (of your £50k) as a deposit , and take out a loan (mortgage) for £120k from the bank to pay the rest of the price. Then you'd still have £20k in cash as well.

    In order to borrow money from the bank for a mortgage, they'll want to check your income etc, to see if they think you can afford the repayments.

    They might agree to lend you £120k, or they might only agree to lend you £100k - or they might even refuse to lend you any money at all. If no bank will lend you enough money, you probably won't be able to buy the house.


  • slenderkitten
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    gwynlas said:
    You would not need to have the deposit in cash in order to buy the house from your mothers estate. You would be buying a 150k house for 100k or whatever size mortgage you choose. If you wish t have the cash to improve or modernise the house once it is yours take on a larger mortgage, I resume that since you live with your mother you are not paying an equal share of all bills as you migh have done with a partner.
    Yes I do pay equal share of bills and all of the food but that's all, so it's enabling me to save for a deposit which I already have. It's just getting my share of the money that is the question. And obviously that's if can get a mortgage of course 
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  • noitsnotme
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    edited 10 March 2024 at 12:41PM
    Have you been paying rent to your mother during  the time you have lived there?
  • BoGoF said:
    Sounds like you want to buy the house and still have your £50k 'share' as cash. Only way that is going to happen is if you sell it to a 3rd party. You somehow think you are at some disadvantage that your siblings have £50k cash and you would have a property worth £150k with a £100k mortgage.
    I understand what you are saying, as it stands I would have to use up all my savings for the 10% deposit so I'll have no cash other than what I earn and there ebate some minor things that I'd like to do.  I also need to save for my retirement which is what my saving were for and given that I'm age 45 and had a hip replacement and have other joint problems I have a lot in this equation to consider, I don't have kids, or drive so just me. 
    No you wouldn’t. You’d use the £50k of equity you’d inherited as the deposit. 
  • slenderkitten
    slenderkitten Posts: 1,121 Forumite
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    Have you been paying rent to your mother during  the time you have lived there?
    Nope already said what I pay, I don't need to pay her rent she is rich enough lol she isn't a demanding person and she doesn't go anywhere. So it's enabled me to save money. 
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