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Buying parents house.
slenderkitten
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I live with my elderly mother in her mortgage free house. I have 2 siblings we will share everything equally we have a will in place.
I am new to all this, how would I go about buying this place on a mortgage (hopefully I would be able to do it) after she dies, I am concerned that they will have free cash out of it but I won't and be saddled with a large debt and be worse off out of the 3 of us?
I don't know all the ins and out of this.
I am new to all this, how would I go about buying this place on a mortgage (hopefully I would be able to do it) after she dies, I am concerned that they will have free cash out of it but I won't and be saddled with a large debt and be worse off out of the 3 of us?
I don't know all the ins and out of this.
My Signature is MY OWN!!
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You agree the value of the house, you get a mortgage and pay your siblings 2/3rds of the agreed value, you then own the house.
Not sure I understand your concern about them having "free cash"? You'll have a free one-third of a house, to the same value as their cash. If you want cash you can all sell the house and take the cash if you prefer.
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You will each have one third share of house sale. If you choose to buy the house your third will probably become the deposit for your mortgage. Other 2 siblings will have cash but no houseThis is an open forum, anyone can post and I just did !2
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If the house is worth £150k what would happen with my £50k how do I get that out of the house?My Signature is MY OWN!!0
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That makes no sense, I have to have the deposit first to get the mortgage to enable me to buy the house. How would I get the money out of the house other than putting it on the mortgage to pay myself?bryanb said:You will each have one third share of house sale. If you choose to buy the house your third will probably become the deposit for your mortgage. Other 2 siblings will have cash but no houseMy Signature is MY OWN!!0 -
By selling it.slenderkitten said:If the house is worth £150k what would happen with my £50k how do I get that out of the house?3 -
I live with my mother in the house, I want to own/live in it as I don't want to pay extortionate rent and potentially eat out my savings one sibling had a buy to let house and another they live in they own ad a family the other in council accommodating so he's fine too it's me with the expensive problem whichrver way I can look at it, they have the cash without any debt attached to it, mine from what I see would come out of a mortgage if I choose to try to take out the full value for the three of us to get a share, which will have debt attached to it that's why I say they have FREE MONEY, as I understand it!user1977 said:You agree the value of the house, you get a mortgage and pay your siblings 2/3rds of the agreed value, you then own the house.
Not sure I understand your concern about them having "free cash"? You'll have a free one-third of a house, to the same value as their cash. If you want cash you can all sell the house and take the cash if you prefer.My Signature is MY OWN!!0 -
Ok, but you're getting FREE (portion of) HOUSE. If you also want FREE MONEY then like I said, sell the house. But then you'll need to find somewhere else to live.slenderkitten said:
I live with my mother in the house, they have their own residences, they have the cash without any debt attached to it, mine from what I see would come out of a mortgage which will have debt attacked to it that's why I say they have FREE MONEY, as I understand it!user1977 said:You agree the value of the house, you get a mortgage and pay your siblings 2/3rds of the agreed value, you then own the house.
Not sure I understand your concern about them having "free cash"? You'll have a free one-third of a house, to the same value as their cash. If you want cash you can all sell the house and take the cash if you prefer.
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the options would be to either sell the property and you would each have £50kslenderkitten said:If the house is worth £150k what would happen with my £50k how do I get that out of the house?
if you want to keep the property you would take a mortgage of £100k to give siblings £50k each and have £50k equity in property - or take a higher mortgage reducing the amount of equity but giving you some cash - eg 90% LTV would be £15k equity, £135k mortgage - £50k each to siblings and £35k to you6 -
Sounds like you want to buy the house and still have your £50k 'share' as cash. Only way that is going to happen is if you sell it to a 3rd party. You somehow think you are at some disadvantage that your siblings have £50k cash and you would have a property worth £150k with a £100k mortgage.7
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If you want to be on a level footing with your siblings, why don't you also get your own residence now?0
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