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Take ex off deeds or wait until house sold in divorce?
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gemmalouise93
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Hi,
My ex husband has agreed that I can have all the equity from the house sale in our divorce (very little but I am resident parent of our daughter).
My ex husband has agreed that I can have all the equity from the house sale in our divorce (very little but I am resident parent of our daughter).
Things have been quite high conflict between us - and I worry that it will come to the house being sold and he’ll change his mind. Can I take him off the deeds now and will this safeguard the settlement? Hope this makes sense
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My understanding is that separating your assets now won't affect the settlement. So I wouldn't go to the legal expense of getting him taken off the deeds
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Brie said:Are you planning to sell in any case? Then as Mark says why go to the expense!Signature removed for peace of mind0
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in a divorce settlement, it doesn't matter who owns the asset, it is all considered jointly own, so there is no advantage to taking him off the deed.0
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gemmalouise93 said:Hi,
My ex husband has agreed that I can have all the equity from the house sale in our divorce (very little but I am resident parent of our daughter).Things have been quite high conflict between us - and I worry that it will come to the house being sold and he’ll change his mind. Can I take him off the deeds now and will this safeguard the settlement? Hope this makes sense“Official Company Representative
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Do you have a consent order and d81 agreed and about to be/already submitted to the court?0
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gemmalouise93 said:Hi,
My ex husband has agreed that I can have all the equity from the house sale in our divorce (very little but I am resident parent of our daughter).Things have been quite high conflict between us - and I worry that it will come to the house being sold and he’ll change his mind. Can I take him off the deeds now and will this safeguard the settlement? Hope this makes sense
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gemmalouise93 said:Hi,
My ex husband has agreed that I can have all the equity from the house sale in our divorce (very little but I am resident parent of our daughter).Things have been quite high conflict between us - and I worry that it will come to the house being sold and he’ll change his mind. Can I take him off the deeds now and will this safeguard the settlement? Hope this makes sense
You should do this as a financial consent order and not separate to that.0
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