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Probate/Inheritance tax with estranged siblings


I have an inheritance tax question. My grandfather passes away in 1986. My grandmother passed away suddenly intestate in 2013. My father was living with her and has continued to live in the property since her death. My aunt, his only sister, lives in Ireland and is estranged from my father. I'm an only child and my aunt has 4 children. My aunt doesn't contribute any up keep to the house and according to her children, wants nothing to do with it. I'm an only child and I'm trying to sort things out for my father after many years estranged from him. We recently reconciled after his health deteriorated.
I checked and the house is still in both my grandparents names. I've looked at the UK gov website and the house is above the £325K IHT threshold. According to Zoopla its worth £466K. According to another it’s worth £600K. I'm just wondering what to do thats financially viable for everyone and doesn't force my Dad to leave the house. He's elderly and not in the best health. I’ve suggested he sell it and split the money. He could then move closer to me but change is hard when your older.
Should i begin probate? I saw the IHT may be revised in the next budget. I saw that parents can gift children their property but how would this work with my aunt in Ireland. My parents are divorced and my aunts a widower. Is the £325K threshold an individual allowance? Or is it to do with the estate as a whole? Thanks in advance.
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kateetak said:
I have an inheritance tax question. My grandfather passes away in 1986. My grandmother passed away suddenly intestate in 2013. My father was living with her and has continued to live in the property since her death. My aunt, his only sister, lives in Ireland and is estranged from my father. I'm an only child and my aunt has 4 children. My aunt doesn't contribute any up keep to the house and according to her children, wants nothing to do with it. I'm an only child and I'm trying to sort things out for my father after many years estranged from him. We recently reconciled after his health deteriorated.
I checked and the house is still in both my grandparents names. I've looked at the UK gov website and the house is above the £325K IHT threshold. According to Zoopla its worth £466K. According to another it’s worth £600K. I'm just wondering what to do thats financially viable for everyone and doesn't force my Dad to leave the house. He's elderly and not in the best health. I’ve suggested he sell it and split the money. He could then move closer to me but change is hard when your older.
Should i begin probate? I saw the IHT may be revised in the next budget.
IHT is related to date of death, and if it's revised in a future budget, the chances of any reduction being backdated are close to zero.kateetak said:I saw that parents can gift children their property but how would this work with my aunt in Ireland. My parents are divorced and my aunts a widower. Is the £325K threshold an individual allowance? Or is it to do with the estate as a whole? Thanks in advance.
Googling on your question might have been both quicker and easier, if you're only after simple facts rather than opinions!0 -
Marcon said:
Your aunt isn't bothered. Your dad may not wish to leave where he's living. Perhaps leave the status quo as it is?
IHT is related to date of death, and if it's revised in a future budget, the chances of any reduction being backdated are close to zero.kateetak said:I saw that parents can gift children their property but how would this work with my aunt in Ireland. My parents are divorced and my aunts a widower. Is the £325K threshold an individual allowance? Or is it to do with the estate as a whole? Thanks in advance.
I have left as is as I thought it might be easier due to estrangement. Its good that my instincts were right.
Regarding a will. My Dad likes to emotionally manipulate me with this. I drafted a will for him using freewill which he hasn't signed. He was under the impression he could leave the whole house to all 5 of us, me and my cousins. I told him repeatedly he can only will his half. Its very, very frustrating.0 -
Did you grandparents have wills in place?
If not the rules of intestacy kick it, so on your grand mother’s death the house would be inherited by your father and aunt. You aunt may not want anything to do with it but it is to late to do a deed of variation now, so any will she makes must take into account she is the legal owner of half a house in the UK.The fact that she has not contributed to the upkeep is not relevant and in any case as your father is the only one to have had beneficial interest in the property it is quite right that he is the only one who should be contributing.The house can’t be sold until your grandmother’s estate had gone through probate / letters of administration. If the house made up the vast majority of her estate there would be no IHT as the value of the house at the time of death would have been well below her available exemptions as her estate will have the transferable NRB from her husband (assuming her left the bulk of his estate to her). If the house is sold while your aunt is still alive her share will however be subject to CGT.
The priority now is to sort out your grandmother’s estate, if it is left until your father or aunt dies it is going to be doubly difficult to sort out. You should also speak to your aunt and explain the situation to her.0 -
Keep_pedalling said:Did you grandparents have wills in place?
If not the rules of intestacy kick it, so on your grand mother’s death the house would be inherited by your father and aunt. You aunt may not want anything to do with it but it is to late to do a deed of variation now, so any will she makes must take into account she is the legal owner of half a house in the UK.The fact that she has not contributed to the upkeep is not relevant and in any case as your father is the only one to have had beneficial interest in the property it is quite right that he is the only one who should be contributing.The house can’t be sold until your grandmother’s estate had gone through probate / letters of administration. If the house made up the vast majority of her estate there would be no IHT as the value of the house at the time of death would have been well below her available exemptions as her estate will have the transferable NRB from her husband (assuming her left the bulk of his estate to her). If the house is sold while your aunt is still alive her share will however be subject to CGT.
The priority now is to sort out your grandmother’s estate, if it is left until your father or aunt dies it is going to be doubly difficult to sort out. You should also speak to your aunt and explain the situation to her.
Hi, thanks for your reply. I don't know if my grandfather had a will. I was very young when he passed. My grandmother died unexpectedly after a short stay in hospital 10 years ago. My Father had been living with her for 10 years prior and had been her carer. She didn't leave a will. The land registry has both of my grandparents listed as the owners.
The last thing i heard from my aunt was that the house should be divided equally by all the grandchildren which would mean her children get a bigger share. Obviously i would prefer the house was split as is and my Fathers half left to me. She can then leave her half to her children.0 -
How much more difficult would this be to sort out if my aunt or father passes away?0
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kateetak said:How much more difficult would this be to sort out if my aunt or father passes away?0
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Under the laws of intestacy, half the house "went" to your your dad and half to your aunt when their mother died.
When one of them dies, in the absence of a will, their half goes to their descendants, so you get dad's portion and aunt's children share her half.
Your aunt can't make any decision about how your dad's half is split or about how the whole house is shared after their deaths, just about what happens with her half.
The one complication is that if aunt dies first, her children inherit her portion between them and it may be that they need to turn that into cash, which could affect your dad's right of residence. From this forum we know that in practice it is very hard to extract a resident beneficiary even if there is a legal route to force a sale.
And we don't know how the Irish rules on things like deprivation of assets work, or if that might be relevant. Maybe ask your cousins?If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing1 -
RAS said:Under the laws of intestacy, half the house "went" to your your dad and half to your aunt when their mother died.
I suppose the first thing to do is to find out if your grandfather left a will. I understand that a will, once probated, is a public document and you can search for it, though I don't know the procedure.
Next would be to get the Land Registry records correct as to current ownership. I don't know how this would be done,. I am sure you could do this yourself, but you might want to use a solicitor.
Once the current ownership is clear, you can discuss what further action works for everyone. Quite possibly taking no action until your father or aunt dies, or else selling now with each of the two getting half the proceeds.0
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