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Elderly mother hoarding cash

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  • Agree with talking to the bank and telling them everything, also emphasize that she is a vulnerable customer. 
  • friolento
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    Why couldn’t / didn’t she pay her mortgage with the cash as it became due monthly? How much mortgage is outstanding, how much are the monthly arrears she has clocked up?
  • southone
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    I would say speak to the bank however the bigger problem here may be if she's claiming pension credit or any other means tested housing type benefits that could be a big problem
  • silvercar
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    southone said:
    I would say speak to the bank however the bigger problem here may be if she's claiming pension credit or any other means tested housing type benefits that could be a big problem
    She won't be claiming housing benefit if she has her own home, albeit with a mortgage.
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  • silvercar said:
    southone said:
    I would say speak to the bank however the bigger problem here may be if she's claiming pension credit or any other means tested housing type benefits that could be a big problem
    She won't be claiming housing benefit if she has her own home, albeit with a mortgage.

    She could still be claiming council tax benefits or pension credit both of which are means tested
  • Depositing the cash into your account would be fraud/theft, so I agree that you should liaise with the bank to have it deposited directly into her account. Also echo the previous posts about discussing with the bank directly to try and resolve the issue.
  • Rob5342
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    edited 13 February 2024 at 11:04AM
    Why has she been taking cash out and keeping it at home instead of paying off the mortgage with it?

    I agree with the other posters, speak to the bank and explain the mess she has got herself into and see what they advise. I suggest you act as quickly as possible as that amount of cash may not be covered by her home insurance (if she even has it)
  • We had a similar situation with my uncle about 6 years ago, he’d been withdrawing his pension every fortnight and storing it in his wardrobe for god knows how long and had around £40k amassed.  Only found out after he was burgled and they missed all the money cos he was hidden under all the other crap he was hoarding (literally rubbish, crisp packets, coke bottles). We made an appointment with the bank (Halifax), explained the situation and were understanding. they could see the money being withdrawn at the same cash point, at the same time every other week. I think we also had a police report following the burglary, but don’t think it was necessary. 
  • Abbafan1972
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    That’s good news. Have you managed to find out why she was hoarding the cash? 
    Striving to clear the mortgage before it finishes in Dec 2028 - amount currently owed - £10,153.44
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