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Away From The Madding Crowd

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  • bluenose1
    bluenose1 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
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    Enjoying your weekly updates Humboldt and love your menu.
    I am really getting into meditation, do between 10 - 40 minutes most mornings, get a real sense of relaxation. Took me a while to appreciate how it calms me down.
    Glad  you enjoyed your visit from family, sounds like a good time was had by all. I love mine visiting but also quite enjoy the peace when they go, plus I wait on them hand and foot so nice to relax. My mum, mother in law and gran all did this for us when we were adults and like my kids we just expected it….
    I love listening to podcasts while doing jobs around the house, mostly motivational, retirement and health ones.  The Diary of a CEO and Feel Better Live More podcasts have interesting guests on that make me reflect on how to improve my mental or physical health, plus just interesting to hear the discussions they have.


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  • uralmaid
    uralmaid Posts: 403 Forumite
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    Sounds like you have been having a lovely time @Humbolt
  • Humboldt
    Humboldt Posts: 405 Forumite
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    Morning all

    @bluenose1 it can be full on when family visit, but I now try to 'cut myself some slack' by getting us a takeaway, eating out (usually at one of the chain pubs that have offers), or cooking a large curry in the slow cooker.  If they are here for a few days or more in the summer, we enjoy relaxed BBQ's (using reduced meat from the freezer and homemade sides), homemade picnics, or an afternoon tea (scones, cakes, etc baked in advance and frozen).  It helps reduce the pressure on me and the budgets. Whilst we enjoy their visits, we too embrace the peace when they leave.  (Just a little reminder for those who may not be aware, I do not include the cost of takeaways and eating out in our monthly grocery budget).

    Hopefully others will try meditation if we promote it enough! It takes a while, but when it finally 'clicks', it so works. I started to listen to The Mel R0bbins Podcast yesterday on Sp0tify.  It was 'The Neuroscientist: After Listening to This, Your Brain Will Not be the Same'.  I remain sceptical, but could relate to some of what was being discussed, so it was interesting. 

    @uralmaid we did very much enjoy the family visit.  I hope that you and your DH are now enjoying some 'down time'.  We had hail this morning, so no gardening again today.  My vegetable seedlings will need potting on in a week or so.  Let us hope the weather improves soon. 

    Today's simple pleasure - The hedgerows are now filled with the flowering blackthorn.  The delicate white flowers are such a contrast to its dark, spiky stems. 
  • Katiehound
    Katiehound Posts: 8,125 Forumite
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    edited 24 April 2024 at 5:36PM
    Humboldt said:
     

    Today's simple pleasure - The hedgerows are now filled with the flowering blackthorn.  The delicate white flowers are such a contrast to its dark, spiky stems. 
    So with any luck there will be loads of sloes to make delicious sloe gin, sloe vodka, or whatever in the autumn!
    Being polite and pleasant doesn't cost anything!
    -Stash bust:in 2022:337
    Stash bust :2023. 120duvets, 24bags,43dogcoats, 2scrunchies, 10mitts, 6 bootees, 8spec cases, 2 A6notebooks, 59cards, 6 lav bags,36 angels,9 bones,1 blanket, 1 lined bag,3 owls, 88 pyramids = total 420total spend £5.Total for 'Dogs for Good' £546.82

    2024:Sewn:59Doggy ds,52pyramids,18 bags,6spec cases,6lav.bags.
    Knits:6covers,4hats,10mitts,2 bootees.
    Crotchet:61angels, 229cards=453 £158.55profit!!!
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  • Humboldt
    Humboldt Posts: 405 Forumite
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    Morning all.

    Hi @Katiehound sloe gin is very nice. The recipe looks simple enough, but I have never tried making it.  I recently came across a recipe for dandelion honey.  Again, a simple recipe, and one that appears to have been lost in time.

    Today's simple pleasure - Mr Blackbird joined me for breakfast.  Me at the kitchen table with my cuppa and overnight oats, him with his feed on the bird table.
  • Katiehound
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    Sloe gin/vodka is very simple to  make. Just buy the cheapest gin or vodka that you can find. probably the hardest thing will be collecting the sloes or not getting caught on the thorns!

    Another drink to make- non alcoholic- is elderflower cordial. Absolutely delicious & so easy. Flowers are around May / June.
    https://veganonboard.com/the-best-homemade-elderflower-cordial/
    Being polite and pleasant doesn't cost anything!
    -Stash bust:in 2022:337
    Stash bust :2023. 120duvets, 24bags,43dogcoats, 2scrunchies, 10mitts, 6 bootees, 8spec cases, 2 A6notebooks, 59cards, 6 lav bags,36 angels,9 bones,1 blanket, 1 lined bag,3 owls, 88 pyramids = total 420total spend £5.Total for 'Dogs for Good' £546.82

    2024:Sewn:59Doggy ds,52pyramids,18 bags,6spec cases,6lav.bags.
    Knits:6covers,4hats,10mitts,2 bootees.
    Crotchet:61angels, 229cards=453 £158.55profit!!!
    2025 3dduvets
  • Humboldt
    Humboldt Posts: 405 Forumite
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    edited 28 April 2024 at 10:15AM
    Morning all.

    Hi @Katiehound I too enjoy making the most of what each season has to offer. We have recently enjoyed locally grown rhubarb, and next week we will be eating our first Jersey Royal potatoes with homemade mint sauce.  There is a lovely line in The River C0ttage Year recipe book  'Seasonality leads us not just to fresher, less travel-weary produce but also to better-tasting varieties of our home-grown favourites'.

    Today's simple pleasure - The tulips that I planted in pots are now at their very best, and add a welcome pop of colour to the garden on this very grey, rainy morning.
  • Katiehound
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    Today's free treat: just seen holly blue butterflies in the garden.

    (oh, and found a brand new china teapot  and cup & saucer in a litter bin complete with their cardboard 'wrappers' in a gift bag. when cleaned they will be off to a charity shop!)
    Being polite and pleasant doesn't cost anything!
    -Stash bust:in 2022:337
    Stash bust :2023. 120duvets, 24bags,43dogcoats, 2scrunchies, 10mitts, 6 bootees, 8spec cases, 2 A6notebooks, 59cards, 6 lav bags,36 angels,9 bones,1 blanket, 1 lined bag,3 owls, 88 pyramids = total 420total spend £5.Total for 'Dogs for Good' £546.82

    2024:Sewn:59Doggy ds,52pyramids,18 bags,6spec cases,6lav.bags.
    Knits:6covers,4hats,10mitts,2 bootees.
    Crotchet:61angels, 229cards=453 £158.55profit!!!
    2025 3dduvets
  • Humboldt
    Humboldt Posts: 405 Forumite
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    Morning all.

    @Katiehound I had to google 'holly blue butterfly'.  You have a such wonderful knowledge and appreciation of nature. Thank you for sharing it.

    Fancy finding a brand new china teapot and cup/saucer in a litter bin! Sad to think that someone would just throw away such a gift, and so kind of you to donate it to a charity shop.

    Today's simple pleasure - first cuppa of the day.  
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