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Foolish teenager - should bank have done more?

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My son is 18 and one month old - and over the past couple of weeks has tried out a stocks&shares trading app.  He seemed to be doing quite well with the fake money the app let him have as a trial - and so decided to put real money into the app.  He transferred almost all the money from his current account (HSBC) via its app.  Unsurprisingly - he isn't an expert in stocks and shares - and so has lost almost 1/2 the money in a couple of days.  He initially transferred almost £5,000.

Yes - this was his fault - and no there was no pressure - so this isn't a scam.  But should we have expected HSBC to query such a transfer?  He is still at school - so although the loss is devastating - we're still feeding him (!) - so he isn't homeless as a result, and he didn't take out a loan, and he hasn't had to sell his house or his car or ....

So all a horrible experience - and an expensive lesson to learn...

If this was my 85 year old father making stupid decisions - I might expect the bank to help?
Thanks

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  • MattMattMattUK
    MattMattMattUK Posts: 11,292 Forumite
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    I agree with Fired, if it was a scam platform then maybe, but only maybe, if it was to a legitimate trading platform then there is no reason for the bank to block the transaction, it is entirely legitimate, if ultimately an unwise choice of action. 
  • My son is 18 and one month old - and over the past couple of weeks has tried out a stocks&shares trading app.  He seemed to be doing quite well with the fake money the app let him have as a trial - and so decided to put real money into the app.  He transferred almost all the money from his current account (HSBC) via its app.  Unsurprisingly - he isn't an expert in stocks and shares - and so has lost almost 1/2 the money in a couple of days.  He initially transferred almost £5,000.

    Yes - this was his fault - and no there was no pressure - so this isn't a scam.  But should we have expected HSBC to query such a transfer?  He is still at school - so although the loss is devastating - we're still feeding him (!) - so he isn't homeless as a result, and he didn't take out a loan, and he hasn't had to sell his house or his car or ....

    So all a horrible experience - and an expensive lesson to learn...

    If this was my 85 year old father making stupid decisions - I might expect the bank to help?
    Thanks

    Not a chance.
    It would just encourage reckless behaviour,  as it would be don't worry if you lose, the bank will refund you.
    Let's Be Careful Out There
  • eskbanker
    eskbanker Posts: 37,340 Forumite
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    Did the transfer pass the usual Confirmation of Payee check, and present all the associated warnings?
  • grumbler
    grumbler Posts: 58,629 Forumite
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    I don't play with stocks, but I think one must try really hard to lose 50% "in a couple of days".
    Can it really be some '
    scam platform'?

  • Tony5896
    Tony5896 Posts: 79 Forumite
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    Is it stocks and shares or crypto?
  • Rob5342
    Rob5342 Posts: 2,427 Forumite
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    Which app was it? A trial where you do well sounds suspiciosly like a scam to convince you to pay real money.
  • eskbanker
    eskbanker Posts: 37,340 Forumite
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    Unsurprisingly - he isn't an expert in stocks and shares - and so has lost almost 1/2 the money in a couple of days.  He initially transferred almost £5,000.

    [...]

    So all a horrible experience - and an expensive lesson to learn...
    In terms of the cost of the lesson, has he actually succeeded in recovering the other half of the money back into his current account, or is it still invested (or 'invested')?
  • 400ixl
    400ixl Posts: 4,482 Forumite
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    grumbler said:
    I don't play with stocks, but I think one must try really hard to lose 50% "in a couple of days".


    Can be done easily with day trading which is likely what was being done here.
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