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  • Pat38493
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    MallyGirl said:
    I went to a broker and got private medical from AXA for a fraction of the continuation quote from BUPA
    But was it still a lot more than what you (or your company) was paying when you were working?
  • MallyGirl
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    Pat38493 said:
    MallyGirl said:
    I went to a broker and got private medical from AXA for a fraction of the continuation quote from BUPA
    But was it still a lot more than what you (or your company) was paying when you were working?
    Of course - I have no bulk buying power.
    I paid tax on an £800 benefit, now I am paying £160 pcm. Both options covering me and adult daughter still in full time education 
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  • nicknameless
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    cfw1994 said:
    Does anybody else who has taken the retirement plunge, like me, not quite believe it is true?  I left work for the last time approx. 7 weeks ago and it is still somewhat surreal.  Is this usual?  Takes a little while to sink in?  54 at the end of the month and no work to do!  Not saying I am missing it in the slightest and wouldn't change a thing right now, but this is very strange indeed :)
    Heh heh!
    It could take a while, I guess.

    In contrast: after a lifetime of work in technology, I was almost ashamed at how rapidly I embraced it 🫣

    I did set off on a 19 day LEJoG bike adventure almost as soon as I stopped.  Solo, but with over a dozen pals either joining me for a bit of the ride, or meeting for a meal in the evenings.  Astonishing how fast I forgot about the day to day work life 👀
     
    Now over 4 years in, I absolutely love the almost total flexibility to do things.   Sunny tomorrow? Maybe have a bike ride.  Want to lay in until lunchtime?  Sure!   

    I do still “worry” about the money side.  Maybe worry is the wrong word: focus on it a bit much 🤷‍♂️  That said, we are in a fortunate position, and besides, I now feed my techie needs by being rather too fastidious with spreadsheets 🤣 Usually wake early, so I get my fix of reading various forums and news whilst lying in bed (hence this post!).


    Relax and enjoy: this is your time 😎

    Appreciate the response.  I am actually missing the financial planning a bit.  Had all sorts of spreadsheets and models and now just enacting the plan.  I want something to tinker with and to test out scenarios.  One of the things I actually loved in the preparation for retirement.  Not a single sole around me shares that interest and they simply look blankly if I try to engage them on anything financial planning / strategy related.  We should start of FP anonymous or something?
    Don't fall into the paralysis by analysis trap.  There'll ALWAYS be something else you coulda, shoulda, woulda done.  There'll always be more money you could have saved, invested differently etc.  As long as the numbers look reasonably OK then just do it is my counsel, as I just said on another thread.  Your remaining days are getting shorter on this mortal coil, not longer.  There are fewer and fewer days to be with your loved ones and no one is guaranteed tomorrow.  No one on their death bed says "I should have worked longer". Never lose sight of that fact.
    Think you may have misread - I've already taken the plunge.  Talking about missing the planning lol!
  • nicknameless
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    edited 28 August at 3:58PM
    pterri said:
    Does anybody else who has taken the retirement plunge, like me, not quite believe it is true?  I left work for the last time approx. 7 weeks ago and it is still somewhat surreal.  Is this usual?  Takes a little while to sink in?  54 at the end of the month and no work to do!  Not saying I am missing it in the slightest and wouldn't change a thing right now, but this is very strange indeed :)
    It’s been four months for me (57). It’s been fine but is starting to feel different now that it’s well beyond a holiday period, I do wonder what the winter will be like. I deliberately avoided foreign breaks so I could seek out some warmth over winter and possibly pick up som last minute breaks.  I don’t regret it for a moment, I’m sleeping way better and no more work dread over the weekend. One downside, I’ve (ad to spend my own actual money on a laptop
    We have booked virtually a break a month - sept in the UK, Germany October, cycling in Majorca in Nov and then trying some xc skiing in Jan.  Might throw a last minute sunshine deal in there somewhere - but possibly shouldn't lol.
  • MetaPhysical
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    edited 29 August at 10:07AM
    pterri said:
    Does anybody else who has taken the retirement plunge, like me, not quite believe it is true?  I left work for the last time approx. 7 weeks ago and it is still somewhat surreal.  Is this usual?  Takes a little while to sink in?  54 at the end of the month and no work to do!  Not saying I am missing it in the slightest and wouldn't change a thing right now, but this is very strange indeed :)
    It’s been four months for me (57). It’s been fine but is starting to feel different now that it’s well beyond a holiday period, I do wonder what the winter will be like. I deliberately avoided foreign breaks so I could seek out some warmth over winter and possibly pick up som last minute breaks.  I don’t regret it for a moment, I’m sleeping way better and no more work dread over the weekend. One downside, I’ve (ad to spend my own actual money on a laptop
    We have booked virtually a break a month - sept in the UK, Germany October, cycling in Majorca in Nov and then trying some xc skiing in Jan.  Might throw a last minute sunshine deal in there somewhere - but possibly shouldn't lol.
    Holidays seems extortionately expensive lately.  Anywhere in The Canaries in UK winter is megabukcs.  Me and my fiancee stayed at the Bahia Princess in Costa Adeje, Tenerife for a week AI two years ago in February (being careful to avoid half term prices) and even then it was £2500 for that week in total - I thought that was pretty staggering.  For next year it would be £3500.  These costs are unbelievable.

    I thought upon retirement we'd be having many, many holidays in the "cheaper" times of the year - Jan/Feb, June and September and November.  Whilst these months are indeed "cheaper" I no longer think such "cheap" times exist.  I think so many people are in our early retired boat, or just retried,  that the holiday companies, AirBnB owners and airlines know the demand is there and can charge pretty much insane prices.
  • Cobbler_tone
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    I paid £800 in March for a week AI for the most luxurious place I’ve ever been in Madeira. Didn’t spend a penny and ate in a different restaurant every night. Sounds like those deals aren’t around at the moment.
  • MetaPhysical
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    I paid £800 in March for a week AI for the most luxurious place I’ve ever been in Madeira. Didn’t spend a penny and ate in a different restaurant every night. Sounds like those deals aren’t around at the moment.
    Wow that is some going.  That is a fabulous island indeed, wonderful and green.  I was there in May and did the Tobagan and cable car.

    May I ask the name of this establishment please and how you came about such a deal?  Was it on Voyage Prive?
  • pterri
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    pterri said:
    Does anybody else who has taken the retirement plunge, like me, not quite believe it is true?  I left work for the last time approx. 7 weeks ago and it is still somewhat surreal.  Is this usual?  Takes a little while to sink in?  54 at the end of the month and no work to do!  Not saying I am missing it in the slightest and wouldn't change a thing right now, but this is very strange indeed :)
    It’s been four months for me (57). It’s been fine but is starting to feel different now that it’s well beyond a holiday period, I do wonder what the winter will be like. I deliberately avoided foreign breaks so I could seek out some warmth over winter and possibly pick up som last minute breaks.  I don’t regret it for a moment, I’m sleeping way better and no more work dread over the weekend. One downside, I’ve (ad to spend my own actual money on a laptop
    We have booked virtually a break a month - sept in the UK, Germany October, cycling in Majorca in Nov and then trying some xc skiing in Jan.  Might throw a last minute sunshine deal in there somewhere - but possibly shouldn't lol.
    where in majorca? i've got  a gravel bike, i like to get away from the tarmac. is majorca  good for that? also, ive spent a lot on my bike and id like to take it wirh me. hassle i know, the main thing stoping me is a decent bike box, they cost a fortune for a rigid one, not convinced by the soft ones. id rather do that then spend more for a 'premium' bike hire. hoping to find a used bon on ebay.
  • Cobbler_tone
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    I paid £800 in March for a week AI for the most luxurious place I’ve ever been in Madeira. Didn’t spend a penny and ate in a different restaurant every night. Sounds like those deals aren’t around at the moment.
    Wow that is some going.  That is a fabulous island indeed, wonderful and green.  I was there in May and did the Tobagan and cable car.

    May I ask the name of this establishment please and how you came about such a deal?  Was it on Voyage Prive?
    It was on Tui...Dreams.
    Booked three weeks before departure, so you won't get those prices now, plus it had just been refurbished so they may have been doing deals. Highly recommended.
    We did the cable car and watched the toboggan. 

    https://www.tui.co.uk/destinations/portugal/madeira/canical/hotels/dreams-madeira-resort-and-spa.html
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